Is it normal for a 30 year old male to be attracted to 16-18 year old girls?

Question

Before you answer this question, lets be honest.

Up until recently, it was perfectly acceptable for young girls to be with older guys. My great uncle is a perfect example. In the 40' s whe he got married to my great aunt, he was 29 and she was 17.

The Virgin Mary was 14 when God got her pregnant.

Present day examples.

Britney Spears was marketed as a sex symol when she was 16 and 17. Every guy I knew wanted to bang her.

Same goes for Paris and Christina Aguellier.

So be honest with your answer and think before you type.

Answer 1

Of course. 16-18 year old girls represent femininity at it's most powerful. On a biological level, many features found in younger women raise little red flags in the male brain. "Reproduce with her: she's fertile; she's young, so she'll live long to care for children." It's evolution.
Personally, I think the age should be lowered to 16. Younger than that, kids aren't quite mature enough to make a real decision, but I think that by the time they turn 16, most girls are wise enough to say no if they really don't want to go through with it.

Answer 2

Yes it is "normal" to be attracted and yes it was considered normal to marry younger women before. I would even go further and remember that in nature, females become sexually active as soon as they can breed, around the time of the first menstruation.

However, humans live in a civilization context that evolves much faster than our biological bodies. From the older male's point of view, this means that the woman is more that a reproductive partner. Also, in this social context of our days (maybe, as opposed to 50 years ago) males and females continue to mature after they become adults because we are more intellectualized. A 30 year old man that can feel fully satisfied with a 20 year old female is probably someone that has not matured at the same rate of most males.

From the younger female's point of view, getting married and starting a family before her time, will seriously hamper her chances of evolving into the plenitude that could have been. Her development as a social participant will be asphyxiated by this context unless she were to marry a kind of man that probably wouldn't feel attracted to her in first place.

Answer 3

Age does not come in between the marriage. If both love each other honestly, then what you have asked could happen and normal.
But, at this young age, girls adore who ever is kind and get close, be others or relatives.Their minds will be immature and cannot the judge the intentions of the person. Once, they grow up, they come out of this immaturity, can judge a person, and develop relationship.

Answer 4

My hubby is 15 yrs older than I, & I was 20 when I married him.
as for you though, normal, maybe. Right=No. If you were talkin about 1 girl would have different lecture, but 16-17 are young girls just starting to come into their sexualites & developing at a much faster rate. They r not even close to being experienced emotionally to make it acceptable for you to act on your emotions.
Look if u must but don't touch pls.

Answer 5

Did you ask "abnormal". Why would an adult want to be with a child? A thirty year old still has everyone 20 - 29 and they are adults. Think about what that REALLY means. Stay away from the high schools... and Date Line...

Answer 6

Yes it is normal, i will say it yes because i aexample myself i like to have link with a girl which is below 20 yrs old. For example talking about sex below 20 yrs old women are very active in sex then i like women who is very hot and young.

Answer 7

well you make a good point....true that women now a days like 16 and 17 year olds are looking more like 25 year old sex goddesses so it kind of makes us guys feel guilty.......not that i have guilt because im 18........but fantasizing is one thing but if you act on your action society will have negative outlooks on you and think your some kind of pervert........so my answer is i think its not your fault your attracted to young girls because they look like young pretty women and not teens anymore.......but under 15 14 and when there like pre teen then thats sick

Answer 8

you can be attracted to them- the kids these days are a little more grown up than in our day-

It becomes hard to deal with if you ACT upon those attractions!!
18 she's grown up- 16-17 acting upon them may have legal impact!!

Answer 9

I think it's normal to be attracted to someone younger than you, but if they aren't legal age, then they best stay away. It could be nothing other than a fling.

Answer 10

You sure have lots of excuses for being a pervert, don't you?
It's alot easier to take advantage of a little girl than a woman your own age.