I'm not a nudist, but I'd be willing to date one if I fell in love with one, even without knowing it. Still, I'm worried about certain situations. What would you do if?
1. Nudist is naked at house.
2. Nudist says you can be naked.
3. Nudist is offended if you aren't naked.
4. Nudist invites nudists over and you're invited.
5. Nudist wants to invite you to a nude beach.
6. Nudist wants to be naked in your yard.
2006-07-25 17:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by philhanan 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I have had a sort of similar situation, because at my place I love to swim topless. When friends have come over for a swim some of them have been a bit funny about me being topless. I always say that it is my place and I can do as I wish.
I make it clear there is no pressure on my girl friends to go topless, but there is also no pressure to keep their top on. Some of them have decided to try going topless, and when they do they love it. One even decided to go nude (because she only had a 1 piece) and loved it.
My guy friends have had mixed reactions. Some get turned on, and some get embarrassed. I make it very clear that it is look but don't touch, and they have all been well behaved. Some of my girl friends go topless with the guys, and some go topless with the girls but keep their tops on with the guys, and that's cool.
I also go topless at one of my friends places. But other friends are not comfy (or more commonly their parents are not OK) with me going topless, so if I swim at their places I wear a tankini.
I think you should do only what you are comfy with. If you are comfy being nude with your nudist friend then OK. But your friend needs to have enough respect for you to keep their clothes on where it is not appropriate
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2006-07-26 14:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Um, they're entitled to do whatever they want in the comfort of their own home and on their own property.It's clear you are insecure with your body,but so are most people. As for the person being offended that you're not naked, that's their problem, not yours.If you can respect their choice to be naked, they should respect your choice for keeping your clothes on.The nude beach and nudist party is all completely up to you.You can always decline the invite.
2006-07-25 17:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your significant other is a true naturist/nudist, they will respect your feelings on the subject, and will not force you do participate in something that you are not comfortable with. The thing to remember is that naturism is not about sex!
A nudist venue is about the only place that people will look you in the eye when they talk to you.
2006-07-27 14:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by cheryl d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find nothing wrong with a nudist. At least they aren't up tight like most people are. It's natural to be naked.
2006-07-25 18:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would handle a nudist the same way I would handle a fish
2006-07-25 17:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by no1special 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
if this is a true friend, it's time to give it a try and drop the insecurities. You should try things at least once
2006-07-25 17:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Handle me anyway you like...as long as it feels good!
2006-07-26 06:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd laugh hysterically
2006-07-26 12:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by thelogicalferret 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd handle her with both hands my friend, both hands!!!
2006-07-25 17:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋