see this guy wants me and him to be together rite but he has a daughter with my asociate. i speak to her but we are not freinds. i like him but i dont really want any tension between the three of us. the have not been together for four years and they dont get along. so should i go for it or forget it. and ontop of that my ex bf and him r friends and my ex gf is his baby mothers cousin.
2006-07-25 17:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do watever you think is best.
2006-07-25 17:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nate Disle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six month rule applies here.
His ex is not a friend, just an associate. It may get awkward but it's a chance you'll have to personally have to take if he's worth it.
They have been apart 4 years (well over 6 months).
You don't say how long you and your ex are apart, since the new guy and him are friends it comes into play. Over 6 months and it's cool unless your ex still wants you, then you are off limits to his friends.
The ex friend being the cousin of his baby's mother has no bearing at all. Simply put, that relationship doesn't rate since it is not first degree to you.
If you truly think you could have something, I'd go for it.
If it looks like a booty call or 'F' Buddy situation it is definately not worth the drama.
Also, at any time your ex and this guy might invoke the 'bro's before ho's' rule. Simply put if your ex has a problem with it, since they are friends, he can put the kibosh on it.
Good luck! :)
2006-07-25 17:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by kierr31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its a very complicated situation here but the thing you can do is; get with him try to work things with ur asociate and try to be friends, and if this works out then there should not be any tension. I do think u should try to be with this guy because i dont think both are planning on getting together anytime soon so what is the problem of u trying to be happy. And about ur ex bf and him being friends; has ur ex tried to get back with you and if yes then i think its a bad idea to go with this person bc he will constantly be there to ask u beg u to go back with him, but if not then no problem. I dont understand the last part but what does that have to do with u tring to get with this guy, is it bad and if it is i suggest try to avoid it.
2006-07-25 17:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by rosamedina2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you imagine just how happy you would be with a nobody? Stop weaving a net. Leave the fabric of complicated relationships behind you.
Can you imagine how refreshing a new man with no roots to your associates or family would be? The newness will be therapeutic to your mind and soul.
Sorry to be harsh, but if your happiness is important to you - it can only come if you start anew. Are you not tired of all the connections??? !!!
2006-07-25 17:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 14:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his baby mothers cousin, what kind of proper grammer is that, i say go to school and learn proper grammer then come back and TRY to tell us again
2006-07-25 17:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd stay out of it! too many problems could occur which isnt good! and i'd try to find someone who doesnt have a kid. sorry. but that relationship would have way too many problems!
2006-07-25 17:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by curlie-ba-twirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea....unless you move to a different state or country with him.
2006-07-25 17:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a soap opera not my cup of tea find someone no one knows that way they are all yours and you have no drama.
2006-07-25 17:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TELL ME, YOU LIVE IN LITTLE ROCK, ARKANSAS-LOL!
STAY OUT OF THE MESS! EVERYONE CARRIES A LITTLE BAGGAGE, BUT THAT IS RIDICULOUS!
2006-07-25 17:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! leave the man alone
2006-07-25 17:07:00 · answer #11 · answered by SUNSHINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋