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i dont kno y but i fantsize about my mom im afraid to tell anyone cuz i dont wanna be kicked out of my house and i dont want to be killed i need help i havent done it i just think about it i need help its a realy big curse

2006-07-25 17:00:54 · 35 answers · asked by SeeKer 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

and i have a gf and no i havent told her ive been with her for 4 years im really scared

2006-07-25 17:03:18 · update #1

let me remind u guys she walk around naked so its like really on my shoulders

2006-07-25 17:09:02 · update #2

this 15 yr old girl said i should but i kno its wrong im confused cuz idk just need a and adult figure to help me out here

2006-07-25 17:22:10 · update #3

35 answers

Leviticus 18
1 The LORD told Moses
2 to tell the people of Israel: I am the LORD your God!
3 So don't follow the customs of Egypt where you used to live or those of Canaan where I am bringing you.
4 I am the LORD your God, and you must obey my teachings.
5 Obey them and you will live. I am the LORD.
6 Don't have sex with any of your close relatives,
7 especially your own mother. This would disgrace your father.
8 And don't disgrace him by having sex with any of his other wives.
9 Don't have sex with your sister or stepsister, whether you grew up together or not.
10 Don't disgrace yourself by having sex with your granddaughter
11 or half sister
12 or a sister of your father or mother.
13 (SEE 18:12)
14 Don't disgrace your uncle by having sex with his wife.
15 Don't have sex with your daughter-in-law
16 or sister-in-law.
17 And don't have sex with the daughter or granddaughter of any woman that you have earlier had sex with. You may be having sex with a relative, and that would make you unclean.
18 As long as your wife is alive, don't cause trouble for her by taking one of her sisters as a second wife.
19 When a woman is having her monthly period, she is unclean, so don't have sex with her.
20 Don't have sex with another man's wife--that would make you unclean.
21 Don't sacrifice your children on the altar fires to the god Molech. I am the LORD your God, and that would disgrace me.
22 It is disgusting for a man to have sex with another man.
23 Anyone who has sex with an animal is unclean.
24 Don't make yourselves unclean by any of these disgusting practices of those nations that I am forcing out of the land for you. They made themselves
25 and the land so unclean, that I punished the land because of their sins, and I made it vomit them up.
26 Now don't do these sickening things that make the land filthy. Instead, obey my laws and teachings.
27 (SEE 18:26)
28 Then the land won't become sick of you and vomit you up, just as it did them.
29 If any of you do these vulgar, disgusting things, you will be unclean and no longer belong to my people. I am the LORD your God, and I forbid you to follow their sickening way of life.
30 (SEE 18:29)


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2006-07-25 17:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 3 4

Your last question may have something to do with the way you are feeling.( Something about your mom walking around the house naked in front of you. )That alone is atrocious!
You don't need help as much as your mom does!
Get out of the house more. When she "exposes" herself in front of you, leave the house, or at least go to another room, anything to get away from her.
You said you liked incest. Does that imply that you have already experienced it? If so, your mom needs to be reported, and you need to find another place to live, depending on your age, which you did not indicate.
By the way, I can only hope that this is a joke, otherwise it just may be reported, and I don't mean to Yahoo! Answers.

2006-07-25 17:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's not a curse, but I hope you are not asking this solely for a rise out of people, because there are many who really do have this problem. If it is in fact troubeling you, I'm sorry for the rude, mean answers many people gave you. Getting a girlfriend is not the answer (even though you already have one), because having the intamacy there could mask your other situation. Please do seek professional help. Getting help is not an embarassing or shameful thing. It could be the best thing of your life. This is not something that will probably go away, but rather affect you for the rest of your life if untreated.
I agree with prayer. God does amazing things. Even if you have never, or are hesitant, God already knows. Admit it to Him, ask for forgiveness, and ask Him to help you. He will!
Until you decide what to do, when the thoughts arise, try to immediatly think of positive things and distract your mind from the sexual thoughts.
Good Luck....

2006-07-25 17:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Owen's Mom 1 · 0 0

It's called the Oedipus complex. Psychiatrist believe that boys have a sub conscience attraction to their mom. I don't understand the theory but it sounds like you really need to talk to someone. I don't know what kind of home life you have and how your parents would react maybe you can talk to someone else. If your still in school perhaps you can talk to a counselor. Maybe you can tell your parents that you are having some issues and you like to talk to a doctor. The doctor/counselor will have more information on this subject and you can talk to someone openly. It seems as though this is really eating you up inside so I suggest you talk to someone. Don't be hard on yourself. You obviously have a problem and believe me, everyone has their share of issues. The important thing is that you know you have a problem. I hope everything works out for you.

2006-07-25 17:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by starfsh25 2 · 1 0

Dude. Just from looking at your profile and the type of questions you ask and answer… you need help. Really. Like counseling and maybe medication. Sick fascination with sex is not healthy. I’m not trying to be judgmental… I just know that this kind of fascination can lead to bad bad things. Like, child molesters can start out this way. Get help now. For your sake and for the sake of any innocents around you. And if you’re just having fun joking around… you still need help. This is a bad outlet for whatever you are really feeling.

2006-07-25 17:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Considering you have not acted on it at all I would not worry about it as much as you are. You have some kind of self restraint to not do it so keep that up. Yes, I would get some kind of consoeling if it is bugging you that much. I would not tell your girlfriend I would just seek some help before hand and when you fix it or feel more comfortable with it come forward and get it off of your chest.

2006-07-25 17:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by racer_chic_04 2 · 0 0

I agree with Leela, tell her you need to talk to someone but don't get specific about the details if she asks tell her you just aren't comfortable discussing it with her. Being a mom I know I would do anything to get my son any help he asked for and I would understand him not being comfortable telling me details. I would just appreciate that he realizes he needs help and trusted me enough to ask me to help him get it. You didn't say how old you are but you definitely need to talk to a professional. Perhaps you could call some local mental health numbers in your area and find a way around telling her if you don't think you can. I wish I had better answers for you but thats all I can think of, I don't know enough about the subject to help you find an explanation. Good luck to you and it is good that you are trying to get help with this, you should be proud of yourself for that!

2006-07-25 17:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0 0

Have u ever seen her nake which could have been triggered ur ferocious sexual appetite for ur mom? I believe it's also called "The Forbidden Pleasure"...Seek Dr. Phil for helps...Sorry I'm not a psychologist nor a sexualogist.

2006-07-25 17:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0 0

Go to therpy.They will keep your secret confidential usually...Check out therpy if your unsure of it.
Find a girl as well.
Good luck...
Maybe you can find a safer fetish/tabooo that pushes aside the Incest thoughts.

2006-07-25 17:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by moondust_dreams 3 · 0 0

I'd see a counselor in private, it may be easier to talk to a school nurse or family psychologist/psychiatrist.
You are protected by many laws and standards of medicines if you are in the United States.
To be attracted to your mother as a female is not unusual, to be attracted to her sexually if she is wearing provocative clothing is something you need to resolve if it is a major distraction and if you are unable to conduct yourself normally.

Incest is sexual activity between close family members. Incest is considered taboo, and forbidden (fully or slightly) in the majority of current and historical cultures. However, the precise meaning of the word varies widely, because different cultures have differing notions of "sexual activity" and "close family member." Some cultures consider only those related by birth, while others include those related by adoption or marriage. Some prohibit sexual relations between people who grew up in the same household, while others prohibit sexual relations between people who grew up in related households.

Incest can occur between same-sex as well as opposite-sex relatives. It can also occur between related children as well as between parents and their children. In addition, there have been cases of incest between adult relatives.

Incest between close blood-relations is a crime in most Western nations, as well as in those nations that were colonised by the West, although again the extent of the definition of "close" varies. There are wide differences between nations as to how serious the crime of incest is. In some countries, such as Australia, incest is a serious indictable offence, while in others it is a minor crime with much less serious consequences.

2006-07-25 17:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That's not incest, it's actually natural--a late Edipal complex.

But still, you need to seek some help--try a priest/reverend, or a counselor at a free counseling service.

2006-07-25 17:03:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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