my husbands best friends wife told me about 1 year ago ,after the birth of there 2nd child,that they were totally done having kids-because they didnt want anymore and because they cant afford another one.
about nine months ago we decided to try for our second child-we just bought a new home my husband got a huge promotion at work and we are very financially stable!
a few months ago we told these people we were trying for our 2nd,they seemed happy for us and stated again that they did not want any more...
i just found out yesterday that they are trying for a 3rd child!!!!
this woman has competed with me for everything since we met,she got pregnant 6 months after i did,got mad at me when i gave my daughter the middle name mackenzie,even though i picked it out when i found out i was pregnant,way before she did,she had to by the same crib set,and even stole my wedding date!!!!
should i say something ????
2006-07-25 16:53:54 · 26 answers · asked by callalily07 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i guess i should details about the wedding date thing-
i had chosen the date when i first got engaged 2 years before she was engaged-the date i chose was the same date as my grandparents wedding anniversary.i sent out save the date cards about 6 months before the actual wedding.2 months later she sent out her own save the date cards with the same date and time.when i confronted her she said it was the only date all her family could get together. whether im insane or not-thats just wrong!!
2006-07-25 16:58:29 · update #1
Back away from her, she is jealous of you and envious of all you have. You will never be comfortable sharing thoughts or ideas with her, for fear she'll take them as her own. Find a new friend who knows how to be a friend. As for this woman? Take her for what she's worth...just the spouse of your husband's best friend, not your friend.
2006-07-25 16:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by trish 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is trying to keep up with you let her. Live you life not hers. I think Mackenzie is an awesome name, my daughter is named that. Tell her to get a grip about the name and be nice but if i was you I would keep my distance and only get together when you have too. Talk to you husband too see if he notices it. Maybe he can help out by limiting the contact between the couples. SHE sounds like the hand that rocks the cradle chick. NUTS!!
2006-07-25 17:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jedday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she sounds like she is jealous of you first of all. Jealousy equals insecurity. Think about talking with her from that angle about things. Perhaps you can approach her over a cup of coffee when it's just the two of you and say something like "I've noticed that you have followed my lead on this and this and this and I'm curious about it."
She is insecure about something although she may not admit to it. If you want to delve that deeply into with her and really like her then try the empathy angle. If you're not interested in doing that, then you will need to just let it go. Best to you.
2006-07-25 17:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 05:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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And the soul, afraid of dying, that never learns to live.
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2006-07-25 16:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not going crazy.there are some people who want to have everything you got.she is the crazy one.dont say anything to her or she will try harded to get everything you have and then some.your best bet is to stop telling her anything .if you r going to buy a new car dont let her know dont even tell her what you plan on naming youre baby.it will all work out
good luck
2006-07-25 17:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by hopefaith_lovecharity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no no no no no!
Do NOT go down to her level. Do NOT even approach the topic. All you can do is live your life and enjoy your life, your husband, and your family. If she wants to be "competitive" then let her. Be above that. You're worth more than that.
2006-07-25 16:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats to say? no matter what you say its only going to piss her off so just let it go, some people think that they are playing the game of life and some people are just insecure with themselves so they have to try and make them feel better by one upping the other guy. the best revenge is a life well lived, try not to let her get to you.
2006-07-25 16:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have to move to another town, obviously this is dangerous for your family because if she cannot have everything that you have she might end up hating you. Watch the movie "Selena" and you'll find out what I mean.
2006-07-25 16:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a problem. The bible says to turn youe cheak. I would have a nice talk with her. If this does not work , maybe you should find a new friend.
2006-07-25 17:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋