My niece's fifteen year old friend is having sex and doing pot with little kids (13) should I talk to her mom

Question

I found out Saturday from my niece, I tried calling the girls mom but the whole family is on vacation.

Answer 1

YES YES YES!!!!!

Answer 2

The expected answer is yes, however, If the daughter is that bad..her mother may be a tough one to talk to, and take defense to your intervention. So meet the mom a couple times first if you have not yet met her. Then yes, tell her. Also, think about talking to the parents of the 13 year olds.But you should know at first you will be the 'Bad Guy', okay. Good luck with this

Answer 3

Well how do you know? did u catch them? Well let me see 15 and 13 i would say both are little kids however, when you start having sex, not many ever stop. Talk to her about birth control at least. dont think for one second that a 13 year old cant make a baby. and do you realy think if she or her friends want to do this anyone can stop them? which goes back to just how much control anyone has over their kids that want to do these things. I sugest your neice either stop hanging with her or put her on the pill. this is real, life not fantasy land where kids dont know aythign till they reach 18.

Answer 4

YES...I would even try to arrainge a meeting for the 15 yr old to visit a county jail where they have some people that are currently doing drugs. I work in the Law Enforcement industry and can tell you that there is no such thing as a harmless drug. Make sure that she sees the meth users that are scratching their arms so hard that they tear the flesh from their arms and faces and stomachs

Answer 5

heck yeah. I'm only 12 years old. Even I know not to do that. Now if her mom does not think you are talking about her daughter. Take the girl, you, the mom to one of those things where they check to see when she is going to have her period. Now the doctor could tell if she has been having sex.

Answer 6

Yes

Answer 7

Yes and now. The younger kids are when the try drugs the easier it is to hook them. It's possible your neice will soon be saleing pot to them as well. She's breaking the law and ruiening children's lives that makess her a pervert in any book.
There are way to many people whom I used to go to school with, work with ect. who started with pot and end up a lot worse.
It's no time to be easy on her.

Answer 8

Your niece's mom (who would be your sis or sis in law) or the friend's? Tell the niece's mom, especially if you get along with her. The friend's mom only if you know her well, if not she'll just put up this "My daughter would never do that" front.

Answer 9

First I would talk to the 15 yr old. Explain condom use and where she can get them, even offer to get them for her....if she's going to do it, she should do it the correct, safe way. Then explain to her that you have to tell her Mom, because as a Mom...I would want to know what my child was doping. If you are a Mom...wouldn't you like to know what your child is doing??? Remember...the truth always comes out!

Answer 10

I think that you should I mean it would be awful for her to get screwed up at such a young age .. I don't think you would be the bad guy in this situation even if she found that you told her mom... You are only trying to protect her.. and that would be a smart thing to do..! Please tell her mother.. she needs to know about it before it is too late..

Answer 11

Absolutely. That girl is slowly destroying her life. She may end up with an unwanted and unneeded pregnancy as well
Someone needs to intervene and get that young lady some help