What should I do about my boyfriends sister who says disrespectful things to me?

Question

She also acts like I am completely stupid about EVERYTHING and if I get am an any way "rude" to her my boyfriends mother won't like me anymore . Also, when I tell my boyfriend about it he just says he'll talk to her and he never does because he thinks she won't care what HE says.

Answer 1

She's jealous. Dump the boyfriend, if he won't tell the sis to back off now, he'll never stand up to her and your life will be miserable where she is concerned. She should have the decency to at least treat you with the respect afforded a stranger or guest in her home. If the BF can't handle her now, he will never be able to.

Answer 2

Well I hate to tell you this but I would break up with him, if he can't stick up for you now against just his sister how is he ever going to be a real man and stick up for you around his friends. Not only that but if it really is untrue and rude comments that his sister is throwing at you stick up for yourself for the love of God. Have some wind in them pipes and speak up, who cares what the mother will think of you. She probably thinks right now at this instance that you will let people walk all over you for the rest of your life. So in all truth SAY SOMETHING!

Answer 3

I think that you should just politley say to the sister that you do not appreciate the things that she is saying to you. Tell her that you like her brother but that doesn't mean that you and her have to be friends. After you tell her, tell your boyfriend exactly what you said to her.

Answer 4

you should talk to her and ask her what you did to offend her. if she says nothing, then reply with "why do you dislike me so much?" and tell her that you really like her brother and that you would like to be friends with her, if she was willing to. let her know that you are not a threat to her relationship with her brother.
she is probably just jealous of the time he spends with you.