first off, i have an online boyfriend of four months and im 15 and so is he.
my friend asked if she could talk to my boyfriend and i told her it was ok i guess, so she talked to him last night then she got his number and she called him to day. i know he does not like her but still, i mean i can't call him cause hes so far and it would show up on the phone bill and my parents would freak because im not aloud to have a boyfriend. hes my boyfriend and she gets to call him whenever she wants =( do you think its wrong for me to be jealous of her? because i am....and just what do you think i sould do about it all?
2006-07-25 16:01:48 · 23 answers · asked by x_X 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i know he's 15 because of web cam and lots of photos.
2006-07-25 16:08:13 · update #1
i told her she could talk to him on chat, on the computer. i had no idea she would ask for his number!!
=(
2006-07-25 16:26:02 · update #2
Don't pursue it.
2006-07-25 16:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon..YOU are the one who told her that it was okay to talk to him!! YOU! NOBODY else. So number one...Learn from this mistake and never repeat it again! You DON'T go giving out your boyfriend's number...PERIOD!!! If a friend asks you for it, ask them why they're so hard up that they can't find their OWN boyfriend!! A mature RELATIONSHIP is between 2 people..NOT 3 or 4 or 5! Problems happen when you get other people involved..then its you, him and whoever else--so you might as well have group sex! At this point, your friend has the upper hand, because she KNOWS you CANT call him./..so if she's evil, she will use that against you...and if she does, she's NO kind of "friend" that's for sure! However, if I were you, I'd nicely tell her that I REALLY have feelings for this guy, and that if she's REALLY my friend, then she will respect my wish...which is NOT to call him anymore. After all, would SHE want YOU calling HER boyfriend? I think not! If she doesn't comply, she aint no friend, and you will be feeling dumber than dumb for giving her the # in the first place.. Good luck, gurl! No go kick BUTT!
2006-07-25 23:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take online boyfriends too seriously, its fun to chat but, no further than that. Keep in mind that on the internet, people most of the time don't tell their true age or sex. So let ur friend call him its her phone bill thats going to be high. U keep chatting on the net and enjoy it.
2006-07-25 23:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Farah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be jealous too. You have every right to.
Well, all you can really do, is go over to her house I guess and call from there.. Ohhh, or you can do 3 way with your friend and him. That way you can make sure nothing is going down between them two, AND you can keep it hidden. Your friend would have to do the 3 way tho so it didn't show on your bill. she would call both of you, and there you go.
i hope that helps somewhat.
good luck. :)
2006-07-25 23:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Me lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to be jealous about these kinds of things, but I would suggest not pursuing an online relationship!!! They can end in tragedy...how do you KNOW for sure that this guy is really 15 and not a child molester!! Whatever you do...PLEASE...never go and meet him in person...if you just want to have a casual fun little online thing then fine...but please dont take it too seriously and NEVER go to meet this guy...ESPECAILLY alone!!! Be Careful!!!
2006-07-25 23:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sure be jealous... talk to your friend.. and if you just don't feel like talking to her about it then show it when she starts talking about him... u have all the right to be jealous.. or you could go over to your friends house, call him, and talk to him in private about the situation
2006-07-25 23:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by liberos-are-fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance never works so let it go and your friend should'n't be making you feel insecure about it. she should respect that he is your bf and that you are already insecure with him being so far. But i wouldn't pursue the relationship if he is that far anyway.
2006-07-25 23:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by blondiebella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how do you know he is only 15?
2006-07-25 23:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by SANDY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well first off for me, i dont think you should have an online boyfriend. the internet is decieving and he could be lying to you. and go to your friends house and talk to him there.
2006-07-25 23:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by classyree88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if you and her want to remain friends that shes needs to back off of him
2006-07-26 01:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by ash13baseball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...in my country we have real boyfriends and real friends...but anyway you should go talk to your so called friend and explain to her that calling that dud is just uncool.
2006-07-26 08:23:22 · answer #11 · answered by alienform2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋