why dont guys ask out girls that they like? i always find out months later that a guy likes me. and they r really hot and i wuld say yes...by the way i asked this same question earlier but in a differnet category, but nobody answered
2006-07-25 15:38:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Why don't girls ask out hot guys they like?
2006-07-25 15:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Rockhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the quiet hot ones you want. The ones you hear about are the players - they have a ton of options and get a ton of action. They're also less likely to be loyal.
A lot of guys, myself included, are just not good at letting girls know we are interested. Sometimes if you're interested, it's good to test the waters out a little bit by doing a little innocent flirting. Say hi. Drop something and let him pick it up. Try to make conversation. This will ease the tension and you may find yourself getting along famously with a really hot shy guy.
And the best part is - because he's shy - he's likely to stay all yours as long as you want him!
2006-07-25 15:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by www.ayntk.blogspot.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys don't see ourselves as hot sh*t. Especially in high school, which it sounds like you're in. I can't read what girls are thinking about anything, never mind whether they'll go out on a date, so this may be the same for others.
2006-07-25 15:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by mbezlr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOst of us do, and some don't. Some can't even find any women to ask out. SO many women, where I live, are eitehr too young or too old for me. But If I could fine one lady whose neither of the two, that I like I'd ask her out many times.
2006-07-25 15:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my best friends are guys and I've asked them the same thing. They have told me that guys get nerves just like we girls do. They think that we think that we are not interested or out of their league.
2006-07-25 15:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by pecarican 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on the issue with a guy and a lady. if he loves her or is in contact or he purely needs to some action ... on your case if he's a staggering guy he probable thinks that way or he purely thinks about foodstuff or pastime like that generic dumb guy does in this earth .
2016-10-15 05:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by jesteriii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because they are afraid. They are afraid of the chance that you may not like them back.
maybe if you made it clear that you liked them then they would have asked you.
You may think you have made it clear but guys are simple and you need to pretty much go up and tell them you like them because they don't get the sign lanuage that girls use.
2006-07-25 15:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Leesfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid of a no i guess ...? U like 2 b sure b4 u ask ...? U can t always b sure if they up 4 it or just teasin u ...? U name it girl ... We not all shy by the way !
2006-07-25 15:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're probably hot, and guys get intimidated by hot chicks. We could never handle the rejection.
2006-07-25 15:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys get really nervous really easy, don't want to get embarressed asking a girl out, and don't want to regected oviously, and i know some girls can be down right mean when regecting a guy, trust me and i know from personal experience that when asking a girl guys are knee woblling nervous
2006-07-25 15:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋