My young daughter seems to enjoy the attention she gets from the gynecologist. Is this normal behavior?

Question

She tells me she likes getting examined there and acts like she is enjoying it. She is 10 and was recently pregnant.

Answer 1

Yes, it is quite normal. And since she learned this from your husband, I'm sure it's a good thing. And the baby's father . . . YUP . . . her daddy!

Answer 2

I'm sorry to say this, but I'm not exactly sure if its there if the problem is with you, OR your daughter, or just both. To be honest I feel like slapping both if you, I took a look at your other questions, and you have seriously nothing but questions about 1) Finding condoms in your daughters room, and ASKING if you should be worried about it, 2) Your daughter being pregnant (and either you should abort it), and 3) probably the worst of all, picking up my old habbit, smoking crystal meth.

Your child has some severe mental damage, I can tell and I'm not even a doctor. Most likely if shes doing that stuff at 10, she must have had one damn traumatic life in those 10 years, where she was either raped, molested, or just sat around watching dudes cut lines of code, hold a nostril and snort it.

I seriously cannot believe you even ask if this is normal behavior, none if it is. It all seriously sounds like a cry for help, and attention, something she feels that she doesn't have, maybe that's why she has sex (to feel loved), maybe that's why she smokes meth (and believe me, you actually have to LEARN how to hold the pipe) because someone had to show her how to do it (which she probably thinks are her friends).

The thing that has me confused the most, is that I'm not really sure if all this is true or not, or if you just don't want to rely on whomever else to ask besides the people on yahoo answers.

Belive me meth is no joke, I lost everyfriend I had when I started, got my car stolen and wrecked, almost got arrested, kicked out of school and home, lost my job, and I still have the cravings 2 years later. And I always will, get her to NA, get her some therapy, get her a psy doctor, because if your not liieng you'll find out that you'll need it.

BTW, actually look up what meth is made of, and maybe you'll see why I find you either nieave or ignorant.

Answer 3

If you really have a recently pregnant 10 year old daughter and you don't know the answer to your own question you have no business being a parent. You are a true disgrace to every real parent out there and your children should be taken away. You cannot possible be serious about that question!

And For the Yahoo police, this is not harassment, it's a frank yet harsh answer to a question!

Answer 4

If she was recently pregnant at only the age of 10 and acts like she enjoys the gyno, she really has the wrong impression of sexual things, body parts, and the values and respect she should have of herself. I think you need to have a BIG talk with her before she gets herself into more trouble. You don't need her getting the wrong kind of attention from males much to old for her or from potential child molesters, though maybe she already has. Get to the bottom of this and get her help NOW, like from a child psychologist, before she's older and gets in deeper.

Answer 5

If this is a joke, you are sick.

Your 10 yr old daughter was pregnant and you don't think that's a problem?
You shouldn't even have to take a 10 yr old to a gynecologist. I'm surprised you and your family haven't been reported yet.

Answer 6

Do you not think that there is anything disturbing about your 10 year old being pregnant???? I would worry more about her being sexually active then about her not freaking out and being scared to go to the gynocologist!!! You need to get her some professional help (couseling) to deal with her issues. It seems to me that she is desperatly seeking attention from anyone that will give it to her...I cant see any other reason that a 10 year old would want to become sexually active!!! Get your daughter some help....and personally, I think you should get some help to on how to better deal with your hurting daughter!!!

Answer 7

First off 10 and pregnant what does a 10 year old know about sex....shaking my head...anyway is her gynecologist male or female. You might want for her to get a female gynecologist. Please teacher her the importance of not having sex at such and early age and using protection.

Answer 8

Okay. So, you think her desire for attention is wrong, but her being pregnant was okay?

Have you ever considered that maybe the reason she got knocked up was because she wanted a little attention? Same with the gynecologist. Maybe they talk to her beforehand and say hi, and that's why she likes it. Why don't you try that?

So talk to your daughter. Give her attention.

P.S. Assuming she was the victim of a rape, please accept my apologies.

If she wasn't...well, hug your little whore anyway, okay?

Answer 9

Your daughter was molested. There are free places she can go check into MHMR (mental health and mental retardation) they will be able to lead you in the right direction. This is not normal, and it is not normal for her to be having sex at such a young age. You should do something soon, or your daughter could end up with a STD, even HIV and she could die. Good luck to you and God bless.

Answer 10

your so good. i like going to the gynecologist. lol. No, quite, I hate going to the gyno this is totally embarrassing even with the undeniable fact that it should be completed so which you suck it up and merely get it over with, yet i don't be attentive to many females that like going.

Answer 11

People like you should not be parents! What the hell do you mean is this normal behavior! How the hell did she end up pregnant, where were you???? Someone needs to take her away from you before you screw her up anymore!!!