need more help.my friends boyfrieind dummped her so he could be with me.i hate him and my friend hates me now?

Answer 1

I can see why you might not like the boy - he's hurt someone else you like for his own selfish reasons. Not a good thing.

On the plus side, if we agree that the boy is a loser, your friend is probably better off without him! If he hadn't left her for you, there would probably have been some other girl he would have chased after eventually. So unless you did anything to encourage him, what happened is really a good thing, not a bad one.

What is completely outside of your power is how your friend feels. Hopefully her sadness will fade and she will realize that she has treated you unfairly. But the same thing that holds for her and the boy's relationship also applies to your and her relationship: if she never forgives you, then maybe you're better off without her too! If random events can make her hate you, then it would have been something else sooner or later even without this boy trouble.

Real friends are those that can endure occasional problems and still come back together. Just try and understand, and don't be hard on her if she does come to her senses! ( :

Answer 2

That happened 2 1 of my friends but she liked him & went-out w/ him but the other friend dumped him!!! so actually it's kinda different. Oh well maybe it helped maybe it didn't. sorry if it didn't.

Answer 3

ok...first if your friend is mad at you becuz she knows why he dumped her,obviosly dont go out with him,first becuz you would the worst friend ever,and second why would you if you hate him,say to him hey you now what,im not like that i dont just go out w/ my friends ex's.and then tell your friend,who should have no reason to be mad at you,that it isnt your fault,its over w/,and you never did go out w/ him. you guys can be friends now,PEACEFULLY!

Answer 4

wow your really screwed. no offense