my boyfriend for thre years has become bored with me i love him it i just don't know anymore if he loves me, or the fact i do the house work and clean his clothes, he's not himself anymore!is there anything i can do to either spark up our relationship or end it?
2006-07-25 15:08:27 · 8 answers · asked by raiha s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it"s u who need to live Ur life so u need to think for that i don"t think that u are not able to take decision regarding this matter life is owe some friend talk to yourself and then decide what to do believe me u will get the best answer !
good luck ! and smile a lot it costs nothing
2006-07-25 15:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys tend to get very comfortable in a relationship to a point that all the romancing, if there was any to begin with, just stops..
how different is he acting??
Is it to the point that he no longer wants you around when he goes out, or doesn't call and stays out really late past the bar closing hours???
If the answer is no then he is not bored with you and does still love you the same..But if the answer is yes then maybe you need to start questioning him!!
Talk to him and tell him how you feel and find out how he feels.. every relationship gets "stuck in a rut" so to speak!!
Good Luck!!
2006-07-25 22:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to talk. Tell him how you feel. The best solution doesnt always have to be 'end the relationship'. What are some of the things you two used to do at the beginning of yall relationship?? Figure it out and go back to those same routines.
2006-07-25 22:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you could keep doing the housework, and cleaning his clothes etc.... and still wonder what is wrong. Its probably him, if he can't let you know that he appreciates you and what you do, then move on. There are other fish in the sea.
2006-07-25 22:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it he hasn't become bored otherwise he would be doing something to spice it up, he has just become lazy and doesn't think the relationship is important
2006-07-25 22:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how's your communication. In what tone did you tell him that you want things to change? You feel like you want to be appreciated more? When's the last time he told you how he felt about you? Have you received any flowers or chocolate goodies? think about these things........
2006-07-25 22:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by gennalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the fires gone, the fires gone.....
only you know the answer to that one
scooby snack?
2006-07-25 22:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by zoinks22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh baby just ditch him and come here and play with me
2006-07-25 22:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by the PimP ChimP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋