lets say i have this friend and she is preagnant but she told me not to tell anyone or she wouldn't be my friend anymore but she is feeling very sick and i don't know what to do should i tell her family so they can help me take care of her or be a good friend. and i know what you are thinkink if she really was a good friend you would tell but i am in alot of stress right now. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
2006-07-25 14:54:59 · 12 answers · asked by Pink Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When it comes to keeping things to yourself, there is one rule that is very important...never keep a secret that could harm themselves or other people. By keeping your friend's pregnancy a secret, she is doing much harm to herself, and to her unborn baby. Health always comes before friendship. She needs to tell her family. Talk to her, let her know how much this is stressing you out, and that you are very concerned for her well being. Suggest being with her in the same room as she tells her parents. But do this ASAP. Good luck to you and your friend.
2006-07-25 15:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all if she told u not to tell anyone then wy did u put it on answers cause now the (most) of the WHOLE ENTIRE world knows and u dont have to tell her family cause when she gets fatter her parents are going to wonder why and then the baby is going to come out and i know if shes a nice woman shes not going to want to give her child away and her parents are going to see the baby and definly find out that she had a baby
2006-07-25 22:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her very soon she will show and her family will know sooner or later. Encourage her 2 tell her parents asap and stand by her . Ask her what she wants 2 do with her baby.
2006-07-25 22:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to the doctor first... i guess. and tell ur friend that sooner or later her family's gonna know... and the sooner she tells them the better. her getting sick is very dangerous for both her and her baby. and for you, try to relax.... being too much stressed gets u sick also...... and wrinkles!
2006-07-25 22:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone. Her health is, I'm sorry to say, more important than your friendship. She's got to let people know...convincer her to tell and save your friendship.
2006-07-25 22:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told you this in confidence. Do not betray her trust in you. She needs you to be supportive. She will tell her family when she is ready. It is not your place to make that decision for her. B
2006-07-25 22:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER FAMILY! Friends don't let other friends be sick (in this case) when they can do something about it.
2006-07-25 21:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Name one way your not Hitler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to tell her parents
2006-07-25 23:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's tough. i think you should do what's best for your friend she will thank you later. she might not speak to you for a while but she will thank you later i promise. i will pray for you and your friend.
God bless!!
2006-07-25 21:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Grl_in_love15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best bet is to try to get her to talk to others... convince her it's the best way to go... that way she wont' be mad at you for telling someone.
2006-07-25 21:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Chazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋