Someone I know has a problem. Her neighbor's husband flirted with her, and then his wife blamed it on the person he flirted with. He has been secretly giving this person little gifts, but she does not want to be with him. Tonight they BOTH jumped on this person and acted like it was all her fault, and they said that she was never welcome at their house again. Now she feels really bad, and she feels like she can't trust anyone but herself. What is she supposed to do?
2006-07-25 14:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by rcie1994 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that she didn't cause nothing between the couple. There was already a problem in that relationship. Next time I suggest she speaks to the man and puts a stop or tell the police because if she is not comfortable, it opens up a can of problems.
2006-07-25 14:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she has a problem and she caused most of it. When the louse flirted she should have distanced herself from them after telling him that she was not int rested instead taking the gifts he gave her showing int rest. This could have been resolved with her high self esteem to let him know that she did not appreciate him trying to get with her behind his wife's back so she invited trouble.
2006-07-25 22:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me on a couple of occasions. Until I finally told the man that if he didn't quit I would tell his wife. One time I did tell the wife, only she didn't believe me. (She chose comfort over trust. How sad is that?) Shame on the desperate housewives and girlfriends, for not only giving their power away but in the process actually giving their husbands and boyfriends "permission" to do it again next time. When are women going to realize their self-worth and not settle for this type of caveman/catfight of behaviour?
2006-07-25 22:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told that person's wife that he was making you feel uncomfortable. If they blamed her after she told the wife, then it is better that she stay away from them or more trouble could erupt from that. You ever heard the story of Amy Fisher and Joey Buttafucko!!! She dont want a duranged wife at her doorstep with violence...
2006-07-25 22:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by creolecuty1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be very greedy 2 accept his gifts in the 1st place. Take it as a bad experience and next x never accept gifts from strangers. DIDNT YR MOTHER TEACH U THAT?
2006-07-25 22:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should ignore the neighbors, they're both trouble makers. The male neighbor has a wandering eye and his wife refuses to open her eyes.
2006-07-25 21:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should have found out what was going before they started all the fighting.Cause they could have got hurt in a big way.
2006-07-25 22:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay clear of them and he will get caught in his own webb and the wife will find out for her self she has nothing for a husband
2006-07-25 22:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sugar daddy hey sounds like some one jeloues by the way can i have futhergifts?
2006-07-25 22:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by aubuchonjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to **** off
2006-07-25 22:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by thanat c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋