him any more now he wont stop calling coming where ever im at and he is now saying that if i dont want to be w/ him i will end up dead ..................what the hell should i do he will not stop im getting scared !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-25 14:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by makayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
GO TO THE POLICE NOW!! ITS BEEN TOO MANY SITUATIONS LIKE YOURS AND OUR WOMEN ARE ENDING UP DEAD FOR REAL. THIS IS VERY SERIOUS!! TALK TO SOMEONE PLEASE GET HELP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. I'M PRAYING FOR YOU SWEETIE.
2006-07-25 14:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to begin with you should have called the cops the moment his fist left your face and nipped that situation butt. But since that’s not the case. Make it clear that you do not want him around, go somewhere where you know you will be safe, CALL the police let them know you’ve been hit and you’re being stalked/harassed. And take actions to get a restraining order. If you don’t want to go that route (which I highly recommend) do you have any male family members/friends who might want to “talk “to him to get the situation straighten out? That may work. Too many people end up dead because they didn’t take the necessary steps to protect themselves.
2006-07-25 15:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Gemini85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to think about getting a restraining order, I know that you might not want to take it there, but, if you are really scared that's what you should do before things get outta hand. It gets hard sometimes but the best thing you can do is be as civil towards him as you can for the child(ren). And sometimes, time apart, is the best solution even if it is law-enforced. He might not understand now but hopefully as time goes on he will realize that you cannot make another person be with or want you unless that's what they truly want. I am speaking from experience. You have to do what is best for you and your child(ren). If he tries to hit you with that " I wanna see my kid(s)" line, then set up visits where there is a 3rd party involved, so he can still see them but he can't use seeing them as an excuse to see you. Good Luck~♥~
2006-07-25 15:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥BlackGirlLost♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised that you stood with him as long as you did; after he has hit you . Now you need to get help, start by going to the Police, but write down what he has been doing to you and now he threatents you and stalks you; because one does not remember all the things one needs to tell when under Stress. Just dont let him frighten you in to coming back with him; because then he will think that he can continue the way he treated you all along
2006-07-25 15:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a report with the police dept. Put a restraining order against him. Contact your local battered womens shelter. Move, change locations. Let everyone around you know what is happening so they can help.
Any and all of the above.
2006-07-25 14:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by yep_yep_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police, get a restraining order, move, get away from him as soon as you can.
2006-07-25 14:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police, get a RO against him, inform your family and friends about him.
2006-07-25 14:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get you a restraining order, domestic violence, so, yes get to the police and for communicating threats
2006-07-25 14:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police
2006-07-25 14:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋