There's this guy that I am dating and whenever we are on the phone we have good conversation but lately when we are actually together it's hard for me to talk. Well, actually what it really is, is that I like him a whole lot, (maybe more than he likes me, even though he says it's the other way around) and I want to tell him but I am scared, because I don't want him to feel like I am pressuring him but, I really like him and I would like to be exclusive. We've been seeing eachother for about 3 or 4 months, I am not seeing anyone else and he says that he isn't either but I don't know how to bring it up. I am afraid of rejection. What should I do? It's complicated because we have been hiding this from both of our parents (it's crazy cause we are in our 20's). It's hard because I want to tell them out of respect even though they might not agree, but he doesn't. I don't know why he doesn't. It makes me feel like he's not taking it seriously but, at the same time I feel him. Help.
2006-07-25 14:47:22 · 3 answers · asked by ♥BlackGirlLost♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His mom and my mom knew eachother before we were born, so I know his parents and he knows mine, they just don't know that we are seeing eachother.
2006-07-25 15:02:56 · update #1
Honesty is always the best solution. I know that sometimes rejection hurts and I am not saying that it will happen, but you need to know as well. It sounds like you want to move the relationship forward, but unsure if he wants to. I say ask and you will find out. Better to do that than to go on draggin your heart around. Good luck and I hope it works out for you.
2006-07-25 14:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him how you feel without sounding desperate. Its clear that he is young, otherwise a man would step up to the plate and make you his woman..Plus any man that does not introduce you to his parents within a month of dating, could not have deep feeling for you. Step back and assess if he is really the one for you..And if you feel that you can trust him tell he how you feel without playing guessing games...Guys dont read signals as well as we do, so he clearly could be completely clueless.
2006-07-25 21:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by creolecuty1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer this question and you will get your answer...:whom do you loved most? Your family or the guy you've loved for.
2006-07-25 21:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by jopay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋