when i do make a move on him he pushes me away and says not tonite.
2006-07-25 14:38:37 · 7 answers · asked by ctrygirl 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
1) What's the communication like between you? I always say that we "know" something is going on however, we are very selective in deciding if we want to acknowledge it or not. 2) Your Boyfriend might have someone else he is 'feeling' 3) He might be dealing with an issue - and can't or won't discuss it with you (when a man moves away from his girl and doesn't want sex, my first observation would be - he is not feeling me anymore, or he has commited high treason with some other woman and he is thinking that he's giving himself some time to 'clean up'. ) or he might be upset with you and you don't have all the information to determine what you might have done. Back to the first comment- what's your communication like. Certainly if you have open communication - he would and should be able to tell you why he is cutting you off rather than just push you away. That is so elementary! He should be able to express why the change. Maybe you make the move too often - and don't give him a chance? There are a lot of reasons - ASK HIM.
2006-07-25 14:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He could be having personal issues that he is embarrassed about BUT... my ex did this when he started cheating on me. It started about the same time he started sleeping with the girl up the street. I really hope your honey isn't cheating on you. Hope it's some other reason that you guys can work out. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 21:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ali Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Are you secure in your relationship? Are the two of you committed to just each other? Maybe he's getting something elsewhere? Is it possible there may be something that is turning him off? Body Odor, not brushing teeth, unshowered, unshaved legs?
2006-07-25 21:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really unnatural. Guys are usually insatiable -- even if they are having a sexual affair. If it is am emotional affair, than having sex with you is cheating on her(or him). Follow up with some frank talk. You deserve an answer.
Good luck
2006-07-25 21:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man i hope he isnt cheating, ask him what's wrong, i'd be pissed too but he didnt wanna do it cus we were at my parents house not because he didnt want me. but tell him to be honest and if u do have sex wear a condom
2006-07-25 21:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you. Consider finding a man who does. There are probably many out there.
2006-07-25 21:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating on you.. or maybe its not as good as it was... not to be mean or anything
2006-07-25 21:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋