I am a cancer and my g/f is a Virgo will be fine?

Question

we gone out for awhile and been though alot she is in wI right now and i am in OH and i mean we been though alot

Answer 1

Both of you are inclined to mood changes that, at times, can irritate each other. For example, Cancer experiences periods of melancholy, tenderness, concern, worry, nostalgia and sentimentality, which Virgo may not understand or sympathise with. Virgo can suddenly become irritated and irascible over minor annoyances, and at such times, is capable of intense sarcasm and criticism, which can be extremely disconcerting to Cancer's tender, sensitive feelings. Virgo must be prudent, and Cancer must strive to be forgiving when things to a little awry. However, you are both capable of enormous devotion to one another (and to your children if you have them), and taking care of one another comes naturally to you.

Both of you have the emotional habits of worry, anxiety, and over-concern about loved ones or life in general. You are both caring and supportive, but you express this in different ways. Cancer is more emotional, compassionate and tender, and appears more sympathetic than Virgo, who wants to help but may seem unemotional and critical at the same time. Virgo's support is often shown by doing something practical, taking care of something concrete and tangible (running errands, doing the shopping, take care of business, etc.) while Cancer empathises with others' feelings and personal experiences far more easily.

Virgo is fastidious and particular about food, health, and personal habits, and can be very fussy about order, tidiness, cleanliness, proper behaviour, etc., which makes Virgo difficult to life with sometimes. Irritability over others' inefficiency, lack of punctuality, or sloppiness is also a habit of Virgo's. Virgo's perfectionism is also turned inward as well, so that Virgo may feel inadequate or that accomplishments are "never enough". Learning self-acceptance, self-love, and relaxation are important for Virgo's well-being, and Cancer can contribute significantly to this because Cancer is more accepting and non-judgmental than Virgo is. Cancer, on the other hand, has a lot of emotional ups and downs and appreciates Virgo's quiet devotion and faithfulness.

Virgo is often critical and coldly analytical of Cancer's ideas, and Cancer is likely to feel belittled by Virgo. If both of you are able to offer criticisms and comments with a helpful, positive attitude, then this astrological influence need not be overwhelming, but the tendency to feel blocked and frustrated in your communications is very strong. You must make sincere efforts to listen receptively and sympathetically!

Virgo is fascinated, intrigued, and sometimes even mesmerised by Cancer's inner qualities. You draw out each other's deepest, hidden feelings, drives, needs, and ambitions. The uncovering of your inner needs and hopes is likely to cause both of you to undergo some major personality changes as a result of this relationship. You share a deep, inner bond; this is not a light or superficial relationship!

Together the two of you have good instincts regarding investments, planning for the future, and awareness of the long-term effects of your actions. This is a boon and bodes well for the longevity of your relationship. Though not very glamorous, perhaps one of the greatest assets you have as a couple is your ability to simply wait out bad times, and to maintain realistic hope in the face of your problems.

You work well together on the level of practical, mundane affairs and could function very well as business partners. When you blend your energies, financial matters, investments, and plans for future security tend to work out quite well. Because you are able to cooperate to be faithful to your shared aims and goals, you make a successful team.

Romantic illusions and fantasies, erotic imagination and dreams of perfect Love all play a crucial role in your relationship. To avoid being severely disappointed and disillusioned, it would be good to recognise from the start that your partner is not a Goddess or God, is not meant to rescue or save you from your problems, and is, in fact, a lot less perfect than you believe! More likely possibilities, such as pretending to be something that you are not, or trying to rescue your partner from his or her own predicaments, can be equally trouble-producing. Either or both of you are apt to feel you were seduced or lured into the relationship under false pretences, but probably you simply fooled yourselves!

If you are willing to accept the less than beautiful and ideal aspects of one another, an authentic relationship based on compassion as well as eroticism can evolve. If you can't do this, the more tragic implications of the phrase "love is blind" will certainly become clear to you both in time.

The two of you really enjoy each other's company! Cancer has a great deal of confidence in Virgo and is able to see Virgo's best qualities. You are very encouraging and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is also invaluable in helping the two of you overcome differences in temperament and other stressful aspects of your relationship discussed elsewhere in this report.

Answer 2

Cancer and Virgo

When Cancer and Virgo make a love match, a strong, down-to-earth relationship with staying power is the happy result. This is a relationship with great potential to get better and better over the passing years. Both Cancer and Virgo are goal-oriented and disciplined. They are sincere and devoted to one another and share a strong sense of purpose. No lightweight love here: These two were not really built for flings! Cancer and Virgo deeply admire one another: Virgo respects Cancer's quiet strength and dedication while Cancer appreciates Virgo's keen adaptability and intelligence. These lovers may get off to a slow start, but over time, bonds will only grow stronger. The Cancer-Virgo love match prides itself on common sense and strong principles over fluff and inconsequential or fleeting connections. They enjoy the material comforts of life, but they will only feel good about their bounty if it has come as a result of honest hard work. There could be tiffs if Virgo becomes too critical for Cancer's easily bruised feelings; Cancer needs to understand that it's just Virgo's nature to point out what they observe, that it's not a personal attack. A Virgo may bristle at their Cancer mate's stubborn streak, but it's a trait that a patient and understanding love partner like Virgo could come to appreciate. Also, Virgo's urge to serve suits Cancer's affectionate, nurturing nature well. The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Mercury (Communication) rules Virgo. Though they're very different planets, they're both near the Sun and therefore always in one another's neighborhoods. The Moon is a mothering influence; it's about cultivation and fostering growth, which are both central concerns for Cancer. Mercury is all about communication, and it's an androgynous energy -- Virgo will adapt and take on the form that it chooses, the guise that best serves a situation. Virgo takes an intellectual approach to life (especially compared to the emotional Cancer), but still manages to be perceptive and intuitive enough to figure others out if they choose. Good thing for the Crab, then, that a Virgo mate can get a feel for devotion and domestic fulfillment if that's what their Cancer lover desires. These two won't argue about fulfilling one another's needs. They'll work at it and relish the rewards of their conscientiousness.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Generally speaking, this is a good combination. Cancer likes to make a home and Virgo likes to clean it! Both are good with children, though Virgos sometimes have fertility problems. She will be very steady in your life and if you have a problem, she will want to solve it. Sometimes you might feel like she's your mother, because she'll lecture you about right and wrong. Virgo has a high energy level, so don't sit around and whine and wait for her to take care of you. She'll get along with your family. She needs you to reassure her and help her calm down and stop worrying.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Cancer gets along with Virgo pretty well, one of the better zodiac matches for them.

Cancer With Virgo:

Cancer is shrewd in caring for their finances, although he/she may not be emotionally able to handle the criticism that will surely be coming his/her way should there be a mistake. Living with the critical Virgo will not be an easy task for the emotionally high strung Cancer who will take all the criticisms to heart and sulk for days. However, in spite of this, the chemistry is exceptionally good. The Virgo will be very "in to" the Cancer, and the feeling will be mutual. This deep, almost unconscious connection will be very strong, making this a good astrological match.

cancer and virgo - astrological compatibility rank = 8 (10 is best)
Cancer will appreciate Virgo's care and attention to detail, although they may not appreciate the critical eye of Virgo, especially when that criticism is aimed at cancer that takes things to heart as a rule. Virgo will appreciate the loyalty and sincerity of cancer, but will need to be a little more demonstrative and affectionate with cancer.



CANCER goes with Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo. (best match is Taurus)

Best Match For Cancer Is Taurus

This is an excellent match and you will find it hard to tear yourselves away from one another! Stay clear of getting too wrapped up in one another though...

Worst Match For Cancer is Gemini

You are too active for this one. The Cancer will want to stay home and cling, so to speak, while you want to go out roam, do things. Forget it! Your energy level is too much higher then the Cancer, and this will in most cases be too much to overcome.

Cancer + Virgo

Water + Earth = Mud

This is a rich and fertile combination of two feminine zodiac signs ruled by the Moon and Mercury respectively. Cancer and Virgo in combination can produce wonderfully imaginative results on all levels of experience. Your sensitive ruler, the Moon, and the intellectually brilliant Mercury of Virgo, combine in the most wonderful play of celestial forces. Great friendship and understanding result from this recipe, but at times Virgo has some difficulty understanding your Cancerian mood swings. When Virgo asks you to “think things through and don’t be so emotional about it”, you’ll look at Virgo, and reply, “But can’t you feel what I’m feeling?” Both of you are at opposite ends of the spectrum in the way you see a particular problem—you, Cancer, emotionally, and Virgo, intellectually. Cancer is a friendly sign of Virgo and a sector of life fulfilment, so Virgo will slowly but surely begin to experience the more responsive side of your personality. Likewise, you can become more reasonable as the empathy between the two of you gets stronger over time.

The one specific area you must handle is Virgo’s tendency to criticise and judge you severely. Your vulnerability, being what it is, may not withstand the ruthless and at times incessant demand for Virgoan perfection. This may also, unfortunately, be translated into your most private area of sexuality, where Virgo demands a performance that is not in keeping with your more easy-going, slower and more receptive nature.

You’ll be a good friend to most Virgos, but in particular those born between 13 and 23 September. Marriage prospects, if you choose, can come your way from those Virgos born between 3 and 12 September, as Saturn, your seventh marital ruler, is their co-ruler. You have some difficulties communicating with Virgos born between 24 August and 2 September due to the Mercury co-rulership. You may need to be prepared for some deep and meaningful discussions that are not your normal taste.

Answer 5

Hehe go to Yahoo! Horoscopes.. But personally, I really don't believe in that.. My BF and I are both Sagittarius and most horoscopessay our relationship won't last.. We are together for about a year and 4 months and we are still going strong.. I think a relationship would be purely based on personality and how you treat each other..

Answer 6

Cancer naturally rules the 4th house and Virgo the 6th house. Houses are 30° apart in a flat or natural chart. Therefore, your Sun signs may be sextile (60° aspect) by degree.

We would have to have both sets of birth data to correctly determine that: dates, places and exact birth times.

Determining compatibility just purely based on your Sun signs is not accurate.

If they are sextile by degree, then here's an interpretation for you:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_sun_aspects.html

Sun sextile Sun in synastry:

This aspect is a very supportive one in any chart comparison. It helps iron out other differences. There is a great deal of compatibility between you, for you understand and are in harmony with one another's basic needs, aims, and approach to life. You build up, encourage, and affirm one another's worth and self-esteem, and you find one another's company very comfortable and natural. This is a mutually beneficial relationship.


Any sign can be with any other sign though! It all depends on your whole chart, based on your DATE, PLACE, EXACT TIME of birth, not just your Sun signs.

Your whole chart then is then compared to the other person's whole chart using a technique called Synastry.

The aspects between each other's planets and points must be looked at and interpreted. The planets in each others houses must be looked at and interpreted, both ways. Affinities must be looked for. It's not simple to a layperson, but it is to people who are educated in Astrology terminology.

Sun sign horoscopes are absolutely inaccurate to determine compatibility between two people.

More info:

Synastry link:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Affinity link:

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

Answer 7

Virgos, females extraordinarily, seek for defense and stability of their relationships. A maximum cancers guy is a great extra healthful for that. he's the knight in shining armor of the zodiac. he's the doting gentleman who will cope along with her like a princess. He is conscious what he needs and he won't be wishy-washy approximately his judgements or devotion. he's the stable male lead that she desires. Libra adult males tend to be extra fickle. they regularly are unlike minded with Virgo. in case you are able to tone down your superficiality and alter into extra dominant, then you quite ought to have a guess. i'm no longer insulting Libras, i'm one myself, yet i be responsive to that Libra adult males tend to be somewhat mechanical and pompous at cases. in basic terms artwork on being a sturdy loving guy and you would be a great experience. on the tip of the day, zodiac signs and indications can purely be a variety of of a capability, we don't ought to shop on with them precisely. We make our own destinies. in case you like her, bypass after her!

Answer 8

You'll be fine if you just don't listen to the cancer and virgo thing.

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

Are you two getting on??? That's what counts!