For the last 2 1/2 weeks my bf has not really wanted to have sex. He comes home from work says he's too tired, his back hurts, and not tonite. I feel like he's bored with our sex. Am I over reacting or not?
2006-07-25 14:11:57 · 32 answers · asked by ctrygirl 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I've asked him whats wrong. He just says he's stressed from work and tired. He works an 8 hour shift mon - fri.
2006-07-25 14:19:52 · update #1
I have asked him several times he says its not me. I have been with him for a year we have been livin together for about 5 months. used to be he couldn't wait to get my in bed.
2006-07-25 14:24:21 · update #2
when i do make a move on him he pushes me away and say not tonite.
2006-07-25 14:31:57 · update #3
Has any of his other "habbits" changed lately? I suppose it could mean he is cheating but you just never know. As far as being bored? I think its kind of hard to bore a guy in bed...I think they are more worried about the outcome while I think females are more concerned with the dynamics. But hey I could be wrong about that too. You live with him right? You have known him for a long time right? It will be something you will have to judge yourself. Maybe he just really is having a bad couple of weeks.
2006-07-25 14:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with that guy? Try this don't ask him, just start to do things that you know arouse him and take the lead. Maybe he needs to be dominated a little. If he starts to talk just just say something like, "Shut your mouth, this is mine tonight." That would get me going. When you are done roll over and go to sleep on him. lol If this works then I would say that you just have to work on being spontaneous and exploring his and your sexual fantasies. If this doesn't work, you might have to have a talk with him about your relationship. Let me know what you think. -Antoine
2006-07-25 14:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Antoine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been jointly for an prolonged time. he's probable bored of the comparable previous ingredient. Thats no longer an insult to you, its merely how adult men are. he's probable asking himself good now if he loves you sufficient to stay with you even however the intercourse isn't that warm returned. A adult men sought after ingredient in existence is a clean female. as quickly as the hot wears off, its as much as a stable dating to maintain him around.
2016-11-03 00:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by bulman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a long time for a boyfriend to put it off, usually the woman is making excuses and faking headaches. I think he might not be liking something about you when you make love. Maybe you should just sit him down and tell him straight out. What's Up...Sometimes the truth hurts.!
2006-07-25 14:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by laa_dee_fukin_daa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that comes down to how well do you know him because he could be legit and just tired from long hours of work or he may say he's working long hours but he may be out with someone else. So it comes down to what he does for work and how well you know him to tell if he is lying about something or not
2006-07-25 14:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by rcrenzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how long you have been together. It may all be true, what is his job? I cannot condemn a man without proper information. So I would have to say you are over reacting.
2006-07-25 14:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe truly stressed by something but it also could be a troubling sign for your relationship. If this doesn't change soon I'd really try to watch for other warning signs.
2006-07-25 14:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by SupergirlKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your boyfriend comes home from work, cook a nice dinner for him. Put on a sexy outfit to turn him on. Good Luck!
2006-07-25 14:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should do somethin dat would make him want to hav sex with u such as get another guy n do stuff with him ( dat he could see) dat would make him jealous n then ask him if he wants sex.
2006-07-25 14:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be another girl, or he's bored. And what are you doing "living" with someone you're not married to? Mistake #1.
2006-07-25 14:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋