My friend is really cheap. I give her abercrombie,hollister cloths and other expensive cloths that dont fit me and she never says thank you. I even gave her my straightener and she can never lend me money. Not even a quarter. She ditches me for other friends. (She isnt good with more than one person) and she talks behind my back. What should i do?
2006-07-25 13:50:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You think she's your friend? Okay, maybe her finances are jack-up and she can' afford all the nice things that you can. Then again, maybe she's being selfish. If she is talking about you behind your back and you know this, I wouldn't call her a friend. Friends don't treat other friends like that.
2006-07-25 13:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lovin' Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you really need someone to tell you what to do???? I would ask yourself the question of is she a friend, never mind a true one! Tell her to piss off and spend that time on working your relationships with other friends that you have. Unless they are like her off couse - in which case they dont deserve the time of day never mind anything else.
2006-07-25 20:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop giving you friend things. If she can only hang out with you when you buy her stuff then she is not a real friend. Distant yourself and find new friends to hangout with. Don't worry, if you know you are a good friend. She'll realize it and she'll come back to you. Real friends are there for you. They don't use you.
2006-07-25 21:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by hunny_bunny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would not treat you like that. A true friend is someone who you can trust. Someone who is there for you no matter what. friends stick together.You build your friendship upon trust. It sounds like she don"t respect your friendship. True friends are hard to find. Talk to her. Let her know how you feel. Sometimes people get so wrapped up for themselves, they don"t realize how they treat others. I hope it works out for you.
2006-07-25 20:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by concerned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but I think you are being used. You need to get out of this now. Friends do not do any of the things you have described in this question
2006-07-25 20:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by louiseanahappycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being friends with her. She's taking advantage of you and then talking about you behind your back - why would you choose to be friends with someone like that?
2006-07-25 20:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her.....shes not a good friend i mean ive had friends like that and i just told them off and they stopped doing what they were doing....and if you tell them off and it doesnt work then just get rid of her or just stop giving her stuff just tell her that she has to say thank you once in a while...ya think? lol so yea
2006-07-25 20:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by socceroxs92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find another friend. This girl just uses you. It's time to begin stepping away from her and find a true friend. Good luck.
2006-07-25 20:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even if she is nice and she treats u like nuthin then she is not a good friend. friends r suppose luv and care for you. If they dont then shes kinda wastin ur time. shes usin u!!!!
2006-07-25 20:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by Future wife of a hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat aint ya friend dats a b**** an u need 2 stop hangin around her find some other true friends
2006-07-25 20:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋