2006-07-25 13:40:38 · 11 answers · asked by Sal 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I would just ask her...
But there seems to be issues here. This is just my humble, unprofessional opinion, but if you think she is cheating, then you might as well end the relationship now.
Why?
Because if you are asking this question on this forum, then you probably think your girlfriend is cheating on you, which means, you don't trust your girlfriend.
I don't know why you don't trust her... maybe she has admitted to cheating on you before, maybe you found some love letters from another guy, maybe there is nothing at all and this is just you being insecure... it doesn't matter... you might as well break up now.
Good strong relationships are built on trust.... And you don't trust her. No trust--- weak relationship.
You could try to keep the relationship going , try to make it work,, but you both will probably be miserable the whole time... you secretly wondering if she cares more for another and getting angrier about it as the days go on... she secretly wondering what she did wrong to make you so angry, and wishing for the days when you relationship was fun and you use to smile. You two will probably break up in the end, bitterly, and wished it had happened sooner.
It could be her, it could be you. Maybe she is cheating, maybe she is not and you are just being paranoid-- not ready for a real relationship yet. But I will ask you this? Do you lay in bed at night and wonder if she is with another guy? Is it all you can think about? Do you get angry when she talks to another guy, or even smiles at one? Do you really want to live you life feeling this way?
If not, end the relationship. Find another girl who you will feel totally secure with, one that you can trust, a girl that, even when you see her laughing with another guy, you don't get jealous because you know she loves YOU and would not betray you in that way. That is trust... that is a stable relationship.
T.
2006-07-25 14:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Theophania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real way to know. But sometimes you should trust your gut and maybe have a talk with her. Eventually a cheater will show it to you in one way or another in most cases. If this is a serious relationship and you can afford it you can hire a private eye or call Cheaters
2006-07-25 20:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by amazonbia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Call cheaters
2) Ask her
3) A combination of the first 2
2006-07-25 20:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Crimson Sage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. If she gets really offensive she may be cheating.
Down right spy on her...snoop around. If she cant look you in the eye or seems very distracted that may be another sign.
2006-07-25 20:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on vacation for two months, if she is one month pregnant when you get back then she is cheating.
2006-07-25 20:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Not Tellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could stalk her. Listen in on all her phone conversations. Grill her friends. Or you could ask her.
2006-07-25 20:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Caritas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um
1. ask
2. hire a private investigator
3. stalk her like a freak
4. dump her and find sum1 better that way she'll come clean....even tho it would be too late by then......damn
2006-07-25 20:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something might be up if the mail-man, the milk-man and the fix it man come over way more than they should.
2006-07-25 20:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby if her lips r white
2006-07-25 20:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by weighted down life!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ya find a card up their sleeve
2006-07-25 20:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by dale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋