There's a guy that I like and I found out that he has a girlfriend, but he picks and picks and PICKS on me. Including his two friends! They don't have girlfriends, though.
I want to get together with the guy with a girlfriend. My mom thinks that the other boys like me, but I don't want to hurt their feelings. What should I do?
2006-07-25 13:30:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Actually, I really do like the boy with the girlfriend. I didn't even know that he had a girlfriend 'til he found out that I liked him, and he told me that he had a girlfriend. THAT'S WHEN HE STARTED PICKING ON ME.
2006-07-25 13:46:28 · update #1
Do you want a bad guy or a great guy?
Don't want anyone so badly or you might get someone so bad.
I think you would prefer a great guy that is a keeper.
Patience, Wait for yours.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-07-25 13:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HA! I'll bet anything that if one of the other boys had the girlfriend, that you would like him instead. It just seems like human nature for most people to want what they cannot have. You may not agree with me, but just think about it. What do either of the other two boys not have, that the one with the g/f has? Is he really that better looking? Or cooler? It sounds like he may like you, at least some anyway, if he gives you a lot of attention. Or maybe he just recognizes that you like him, and he's just goofing off and enjoying the extra attention.
2006-07-25 20:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, you can quit the desperation thing! What a juvenile act you put on! You think it might be time to grow up a bit?! Guys that are worth anything CAN'T STAND girls like you--I don't say that to sound mean, it's simply true! Chill out a thousand degrees, and let your actions do the talking for you--and act as adult as you possibly can! And you better learn at a young age that it is so uncool to force yourself into another relationship! If you have any class at all, you need to wait until they break up before you go whoring in! Take your time, play the game, but most of all, ACT YOUR AGE, and quit being a spoiled brat sl*t!!
2006-07-25 20:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rebooted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on the guy with the girl. Remember girls are evil and they only get you in trouble one way or another. She might be the jealous kind and cause a fight just because you like her man. Honestly, back off. Focus on school & not boys and when the time is right & the guy is right it will just happen.
When I stopped looking for Mr. Right & I started focusing on my career in the Navy my husband came into my life & it was love at first sight. He'll come to you, but only when the time is right. Have patience and faith in the future.
2006-07-25 20:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by gorf79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend, so butt out. You have a better chance with the one's who do not have girlfriends. If not, your needing a guy SO BADLY, will continue.
2006-07-25 20:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to go out with a guy that likes you and you like but not really really like, just stay friends and keep hanging, soon you could see things work out your way with the one you really like.
2006-07-25 20:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Depends on you. I wouldn't want a guy so badly if he picked on me.
2006-07-25 20:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by bajinnoly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy's in a releationship then back off he probably thinks of you as his friend.
2006-07-25 20:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, he has a gf. get involved with different stuff, and believe me, the guy you never thought would like you, will soon be your bf.
2006-07-25 22:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.. its your happiness that counts... it will be unfair for the two other guys since you don't like them
2006-07-25 20:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by demon_hunter_ illidan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋