I have a friend, who's two year boyfriend just broke up with her. She now smokes weed, drinks, and all of that stuff. She just wants to end her life. What should I do?
2006-07-25 13:19:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i've tried tellng her that there are other people, but she says she won't give up, she says she'll get him back, even though he claims he will forget about her.
2006-07-25 13:46:20 · update #1
the other night i had a longgg talk with her, and i haven't talked to her since. but that nght she said she wanted to kill herself. my brother [the ex boyfriend of hers] says he has talked to her. but then he gets all of a sudden sad for some reason, but he won't tell me why. so i have no clue as of now whats happeneing. i just hope everything is ok with her.
2006-07-27 20:06:19 · update #2
you and a few of her other good friends should to try and get her out of those self destructive situations. go for a walk or to the movies or the mall or whatever to show her that she doesn't need him and that she can still have fun. be there for her and listen with out always throwing n your 2 cents. sometimes people just need someone to listen and don't want advise.
2006-07-25 13:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL HER THAT IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD THAT LIFE GOES ON AND SHE WILL LOVE AGAIN, NO SENSE IN CRYING OVER SPILLED MILK GET A MOP,MOP IT UP AND POUR ANOTHER GLASS KEEP YOUR EYE ON THE GLASS SO THAT IF THE NEXT TIME YOU POUR YOU CAN CATCH THE GLASS SO THAT IT DOESN'T BREAK AND IF THE MILK SPILL SO WHAT EVERYONE HAS MILK IN THEIR HOUSE HELL YOU CAN EVEN BORROW SOME ONES' MILK. GLASS (YOUR HEART) MILK ( THE MAN)
2006-07-25 20:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a great friend, try talking to her and if that doesn't work go to someone that you know she'll listen too, parents?
2006-07-25 20:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by leavao1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bee nice, and caring and GENTLY talk to her about getting some help, by like a tharipist, or a person who you know FOR SURE has their head on streight
2006-07-25 20:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Gina C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and help her sort out her problems. If that doesn't help, recommend a good therapist for her.
2006-07-25 20:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her its not worth ruining your life over one guy. tell her that that guy is probably going to find another girlfriend who's not 1/2 as good as her.
2006-07-25 20:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by bonee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a)check her into a rehab centre
b)get her another man to help her deal
c)smack some sense back into her.
2006-07-25 20:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some conselling session for her.either you talk to her and explain to her that it is not worth it and stuffs.OR.you tell her parents and they wil settle the conselling part.
2006-07-25 20:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
het her professional help. you dont want to get yourself mixed up because you could mess something up without knowing it. and you dont want that to happen
2006-07-25 20:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by shy girl. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep them away from each other, keep them away from each other, keep them away from each other..... keep HIM away from her
2006-07-29 08:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋