I want out!?

Question

my girlfriend is very jealous, i used to love her even would of given my life for her, but i lost those feelings with her. she's always claiming i'm cheating on her, and dosen't even trust me going to my car. i tried dealing with it but enough is enough! no matter what she will always be the same and i want out. i never once cheated on her. i tried everything to prove it to her, but to no avail. What would you do in this relationship, need help fast

Answer 1

If you care about your girlfriend, you will sit down with her, and tell her that she is to listen carefully, and not speak. Tell her you are not interested in a debate, you want her to know exactly how you feel. (this question sounds like one i just answered, from the other perspective. hmmm...she wonders to herself....) anyway -- tell her exactly how you feel. Be honest, blunt, straightforward. Tell her that she is driving you away, you are frustrated, and that you cannot take it anymore. Tell her that her lack of trust in you tells you she is not ready for a relationship. Tell her how it makes you feel when she accuses you. Tell her how it feels when she doesn't believe you when you defend yourself. Ask her why she would want to stay with you if she can't trust you. Tell her that you want to cool the relationship until she gets some help with her anxiety and lack of self control. good luck.

Answer 2

I think you need to get some space from her... she sounds really possessive, even obsessive about you. does she have a diagnosis?? that would make this easier.... umm...Yes you need to take care of your self first and foremost. If separating from her is what you truly want then you need to make it very clear to her that it is over...do not leave anything dangling. Don't have to come back for things over and over again. Don't play the nice guy and keep accepting her phone calls...change your number if necessary... to make this clean you have to sever all ties...stay away from any communication with her for at least 6 months. For her sake as well as yours. So take anything that is yours with you now. Remember you might miss her...this is normal, just remind yourself what it was REALLY like when you where together!! Give yourself a time limit before you let yourself call or go to see her after you get that "i miss her" feeling. Like 2 hours ... see if you still feel the same way... you probably won't.
Good Luck. Stay to what is true to your heart.

Answer 3

You've just said what you want. So do it. You don't need to gain acceptance for your decision from anyone but yourself, you know whats best for you, so if you feel like you want out, get out. Tell her your leaving her because you can not take her jealousy any longer, you are a faithful and trustworthy person who deserves someone who would appreciate those qualities and not be skeptical of them. No matter how hard she cries, stick to your guns, just because she is upset doesn't mean she is going to change her behavior.
Good luck.

Answer 4

Break it off now. Your girlfriend is dealing with some confidence issues and she's taking it out on you.

Just tell her the truth and don't beat around the bush. Just tell her that you feel the pair of you are moving in different directions. Tell her you need time to think. If she starts to cry...tell her that it's not forever you just need to find out what you want - and right now you don't want all this fighting.

Good Luck & God Bless.

Answer 5

Let her know how you feel. She sounds like the sort who would take it bad but there isn't a whole lot you can do about that. You just have to show both her and yourself some respect and be honest about it.

Answer 6

Just tell her the truth about what she is doing because she might not even be realizing it that she is accusing you of cheating many times

Answer 7

It's time to leave her. She'll probably say that proves she was right, but what does she know? The grief isn't worth it, especially if you say you lost your feelings for her.

Answer 8

If this person loves you you should seek counseling. love is a beautifull thing and should not be throw out because of a partners insecurities work on your relationship.

Answer 9

Do you love her enough to keep on putting up with her trust issues? It all depends on if you want to be bothered with her B.S.

Answer 10

If the house is in your name tell her to get out if it's in her name you get out. If it's in both names go to the landlord and have yours taken off. Just get out! life is to short to be miserable.