We made preliminary plans for Sunday nite but he didn't call me until 8. We then made plans for Monday but he went fising until after 7 pm and was too tired. We made plans for today and now he's not feeling well. He told me I could come over but gave me all these excuses about how he'd be poor company and didn't feel like having sex (like that was the 1st thing on my mind). He totally made me feel like he really didn't want me to come by but that at least he asked so I shouldn't be mad.
Sound fishy to you?
2006-07-25 12:31:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah this definitely sounds fishy!! has he ever displayed behavior like this before? if not then there is something going on...back in my day i would try to avoid my gf if i was planning something with another girl. avoiding the girlfriend in my case meant i wanted to make sure i was able to perform with my other girl....which is probably why he gave you his excuses about not having sex before anything ever came up...i smell something real fishy!!!
what if you went to go see him? see how he is doing? see if he's acting different/funny. overly nice or suspicious or guilty...check out his body language..
just dont have the blindfold on...if you suspect something is up keep it in mind for a while a pay close attention to his ways and patterns..
2006-07-25 12:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is every girl in the world this stupid?
Hun he is cheating on you and it is so easy for him to make up all of these excuses beacause he's done it more than twice.
When he told you that he was sick and thought that he would be poor company, you should have said that you'll let him get his rest then wait a couple minutes and then go to his house and 9 times out of 10, he'll be there with another girl.
2006-07-25 12:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does not want your company too much. How about you getting out with your friends for the next couple of evenings and the coming weekend and let him call you and ask you out. Let him work a little bit to have your company. If he’s not doing it just get rid of him.
2006-07-25 12:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by celibec109 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sounds fishy. Period. If I were you, I would make plans with him for another night, but instead of showing up, go to where you think he is. Even if you can't find him, don't go to the planned thing, it's your turn to stand him up! What a jerk.
2006-07-25 12:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kim38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be with a guy who has your feelings in mind, not just his. You should be your boyfriend's #1 priority. Let him know how you feel. If things don't change, kick him to the curb.
2006-07-25 12:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by LuckyLola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it dear you are a bother to him if a man wants you badly there is nothing in the planet that will keep him from you! Move on NEXT!
2006-07-25 12:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who was he fishing with? hell yes that is fishy, if you go, who will you find there?
Bin him dear. You deserve to be treated better. If you are wrong about the cheating, you are not wrong about the disrespectful and bad behavior...
2006-07-25 12:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being given a message that you are not hearing. Dump him now....and definitely stay out of his bed.
This guy will break your heart..if you let him...so dont you let him.
2006-07-25 12:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the law's of nature, You should be very much upset.
Now, the Question is, What are you going to do about it.
2006-07-25 12:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by DUMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little. Don't mess with a dude who puts **** off like that
2006-07-25 12:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by SugaNuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋