see i have been talking with a girl over the phone for a year and a half and we have not meet yet and throw all that time she has fell in love with me but i dont have the same filing for her and i dont want to make her sad if we break up and she been tring to see me but i think that could make it wors so plz tell me what to do??
2006-07-25 12:12:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know everyone says this but you should tell her how you really feel because if you don't then you will hurt her. Where as if you tell her how you feel now she will be hurt but not as bad and the ya all could still be friends.
2006-07-25 12:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey kiddo - sometimes relationships don't work out. It hurts terribly when you're the one who has to break things off with another person; but it's the right thing to do if that's the way you feel. Yes, she'll be hurt. But she won't be able to find a new love if you keep her hanging on with false hope! So, give her a call and tell her that you have truly enjoyed being her friend, but you want to start dating someone else. Tell her you hope the two of you can still be friends, but then let her go and don't contact her for awhile. She'll need the time to understand the split is serious.
I know this isn't going to be easy, but it's the right thing to do.
2006-07-25 12:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right thing to do is`nt always the easiest. You have to tell her how you really feel. yes, she will be sad at first, but before long she will move on and be happy with someone else.
2006-07-25 12:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Liza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just not show up thats just mean, and you'll leave her thinking about why you didnt show up. Just meet her and tell her the truth, she'll get over it and forget but she wont stop wondering why you didnt meet her.
2006-07-25 12:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by porschegirl702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you need to stop this now before she is in too deep . The good thing is your still kind of a fantasy to her being that you haven't met. Hurting her is inevitable. Just be kind.
2006-07-25 12:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you enjoy talking to her? Then don't let her go....marry someone you love talking to that way as the years go by you'll still love talking....and sharing memories.
2006-07-25 12:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jillsifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. if you care about her , the truth is the only way
i know that sometimes is painfull but it is the reality. dont let her to live in other worlds
2006-07-25 12:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by dragongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus meet her and see what happens if u still feel the same way then let her down easy
2006-07-25 12:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bugz Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing you can do is tell her the truth. Whatever you do, do not lie to her. You could really hurt her self-esteem.
2006-07-25 12:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i never fell in love with any one i never meet before. maybe it's more infatuation she has then love. well just be honest with her
2006-07-25 12:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋