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2006-07-25 12:03:53 · 36 answers · asked by kandiboy 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
seriously im not bothered ...been there myself and its all above board...plus we love and trust each other that much it`s not an issue, at the end of the day she comes home to me and that home is gettin nicer by the day !! cheers for your answers though : )
2006-07-25 12:15:53 · update #1
hy his is daveey and stevie both gay dudes, we work, as, nude waiters gay mens club actually thats were we met, etc, anyways we share everything in our life and love our jobs but when we leave the job we leave it there dont discuss anything, what iam getting at in your siutationn is i would sit downe with your girl, etc and say look, i will, support you in your job its your choice but when you come home too me your mine leave the job there you dont want too hear about the gossip of her job, etc, this is were certain jealous sets its ugly head inn, rumors whos screwing who etc, just tell girlfriend look, i love ya for who you are were you work leave it there etc, and set i her straight okay this is what me and my partner have set out and live bye ioit okay, jealousy rumors lies are no good for any relationshippp okay, set your girl straight you dont weant too hear about her job okay try it it works etc
2006-07-25 12:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Just think of the money she'll make and remember that its you she'll come home to at the end of the night. I used to be a dancer in a nightclub and the money was great but i was always tired and my boyfriend kept giving me grief all the time. so I quit I know he is now gutted as we are now in loads of debt which we were'nt when I danced. I know its gonna be hard for you but if you try and stop her you will both regret it. maybe you could go with her then you'll see shes just working and nothing more.
2006-07-25 12:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by make*a*wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lapdancing is a very good form of excercise and as long as your girlfriend is coming home to you then there is no need for you to worry. As long as she is not working in some seedy back street club.
2006-07-25 12:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by tracy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant she lap dance for you? sorry, if you are happy with it then why not let it happen, coz it is only a job and aparrently they have big burly blokes to look after the girls to make sure nothing happens, as i said, if you are both happy, go for it, good luck girl
2006-07-25 12:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ian H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prepare for insecurities. That is not an average job for a girl and you should feel bad, you have every right to. Talk to her and help her find another job.
2006-07-25 12:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are worried or you wouldn't be asking this question. if I were a guy, I wouldn't want a girlfriend who shows her body and teases men for a living. her body should be for my viewing pleasure only - not another man. sounds like cheap morals to me. if she cheats on you don't be surprised. some people are more liberal minded and glad I'm not one. ask this to the women in your family and see what they say.
2006-07-25 15:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by chit-chaat7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao its ok i guess i mean she is just showing her naked body in front of other people, nobody can touch her or they will get thrown out but she could get raped but on the bright side you get to say I get to have sex with a striper but you might have trouble with the Pimp lmao
2006-07-25 12:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's ok, if that's what she wanna do, after all she make be dancing to them but she's gonna be coming home to u and sleeping with u not them and with the money she makes it will help out with any bills so go for it.
2006-07-25 12:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by aholmes12003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not OK with it or you wouldn't have asked. I suggest you get a girlfriend with some morals and self respect.
2006-07-25 12:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a guy's opinion..............well......seriously, if my gf gotta job like that, I would first see if she gave good lap dances for me - free of course- , then, I would make sure I was the last guy she gave a lap dance every night.....no big deal if ur her ONLY MAN as long as she comes home to you every night thats it
2006-07-25 20:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by big unit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋