If my boyfriend has other girls' names on his shoes, do i have a reason to be upset wif him?
I love him and all, but I [kind of] consider it like... cheating in a way, because the girls' names had hearts around them and had plus signs [+]
I got really sad and he said i shouldnt be, but I feel like i should. Is it wrong to be upset with him over this matter?
2006-07-25 12:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by sebra_loves_her_tunamonstuur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ive been wif him for a year.. they were there before. When i asked him who the girls were he said they were just girls... nothing to worry about..
2006-07-25 12:09:09 · update #1
I meant to say they werent there before we got together
2006-07-25 12:09:40 · update #2
dont blame u for being sad..i wud also b!!! the guy's a jerk!!
2006-07-25 12:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quick look at your profile says that you're 15. That's what? A Sophomore in High School? You really only have two choices:
a) Dump him, find some guy that understands how you feel that any thought of another girl is equatable to cheating
b) Keep him around, realize that you can't control what he does, and so long as he gives you the attention you deserve and keeps his heart in the right place things will be fine.
Most high school sweethearts don't last forever, this seems like it's going to be one that doesn't. Relax, if you enjoy his company then enjoy it and ignore the shoes. Think of it this way, the girls writing on his shoes are jealous of you.
2006-07-25 12:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends..if the names were there before u got 2gether and there havent been any new ones since,u shouldnt be mad(buy him some new kicks).If the're there after,I'd question it.How are tey getting close enough to write on his shoes...sounds like an innappropriate distance if you ask me......
2006-07-25 12:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really pissed off if my boyfriend did that. Why are you with a guy who writes other girls' names on his shoes?
Maybe I'm overreacting, but it seems to me like if he respected you at all he either wouldn't write their names on his things or would scribble them out if they were there before you started dating.
2006-07-25 12:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes i would be mad, tell him to either wash their names off or it's over...b.c that's not right to have other girls name on his shoes with hearts around them..that's messed up. Teach him a lesson...and tell him that if he's mad that your mad, tell him he's being unreasonable..and if that doesn't work then:
Write guys names on your shoes...show him what he's working with...
Good luck!!
2006-07-25 12:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Nanner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be upset. Why is there other girls names on his shoes. Did he tell you why?
2006-07-25 12:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right to be upset. he shows no respect for you. i had a boyfriend like that and it ended because he cheated, repeatedly. he wanted me to belive that those girls meant nothing but it hurt me. i began to disrespect him more and more because he made me feel so bad about myself whil saying he loved me..
2006-07-25 12:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by femari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to be woriried you don't know if he is cheating or not.and men lie all the time and it isn't like he is gonna tell you he is cheating if he was. so you have a right to be worried. you go girl
2006-07-25 12:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it.
2006-07-25 12:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋