would a married woman ever leave her husband for someone els she claims she love?

Question

im single and have been involved with a married woman but only as far as longdistance conversation over the phone we have been speaking for 2 years and some how some way we fell in love with one another because she claims she's happy with me and unhappy in her marriage she says she wants me but dont wanna distroy the marriage in the proceses because of it.....this is a new experience for me and yes i do no its wrong .....do you think she will ever leave her husband .and what do you think i should do

Answer 1

She can't claim its love if it happened so fast,if anything it can be lust. Lust is so commonly confused with love. How could you leave your husband for someone of the moment. You promised through thick and thin,and it was a vow. Vows in the eyes of God.
If its been two years don't waste anymore time on her. It's a long time and if you want a relationship wtih her,she has to give up her husband and she doesn't look like she will.
You should confront her on it. Don't back down. Be forward and honest. It's your decision in the matter to. Don't let your emotions dictate the true importance of the situation.
Tell her its been two years,and your looking for that relationship,and that she would have to leave her husband,because its not the three of you being together,its you and her. Also you can tell her that in order for her to be a mature adult she has to make decisions,and one of them is to either leave you,and stay with her husband,or leave him and go with you.
life is all about decisions and what we decide effects the course of one thing or another. We need WILL,its the strongest force out there. WILL gives us the motive to do anything and if she had will,she'd make a decision

Answer 2

I view your situation as a difficult one to answer, but i will give it a try. My question is can you not find a single woman and forget this married woman ? A lot of women like to use men when they are in a marital predicament like you mention.

Be careful that you don't put a lot of time and effort into being there for her, and in the end if she decide to leave her husband. She can go with some other man and leave you in the dark, and worse yet; do like she don't know you if your two meet some were.

Worse yet she can set the police on you for harrasment, if you come on too strong on her in questioning her for behaving like she don't know you. For argument sake men do the same thing as well to women so both genders are quilty of this trait.

There is no gurantee that if she leave her husband she will choose you. I will say so again as i can't stress enough, ( There is No Gurantee that she will choose you if she leave her husband ) You can end up doing the dirty work and it is some other man that will benefit from it. Think about it for a minute and listen to your gut feelings about this situation she want to drag you in with her. Things are more complicated if you have sex with her.

You need to leave this woman in her pathetic situation and find some one that is single. You have no gurantee she will be with you if she leave her husband.

Do you really want to have the emotional baggage this woman carry with her in your life ? Such a relationship will get you old before your time, and really, no woman is worth bringing your self to that level at all.

We all make mistakes and you need to use your head and not do any thing that you will regret later on. What you didn't say is the age gap between you two.

Be smart and get out of that situation.

Answer 3

I've been married twice before, so I don't care if I don't marry again, but I won't say that I "won't" marry again...it's not a priority at all, but I would love to have someone to share my Life with... I've been single for a long time now (the better part of the past 11 yrs) so I'm comfortable with it just being me, if that's how the rest of my life goes...I have friends and family and interests, so it's never boring (but sometimes it gets lonely)...

Answer 4

People do it all the time. I think you should back off though. She already made vows to someone else. Why would you want a woman who lied when she promised to stay with someone for better or worse...but really only meant until something better came along? If she will cheat on her husband, she will cheat on you. If she will lie to her husband, she will lie to you. If she has children, then you have no right to take one of their parents away from them. All that is coming out of this is destruction, even if it feels good for now. You need to send her back to her husband and recommend that they get marriage counseling to fix their problems. That's what a real man would do. Children are self-centered and want gratification. Men see beyond themselves.

Answer 5

I think this woman has problems in her marriage and you're going to get hurt because you're being used to make her feel better. She may not even realize that's what she's doing. Do both of you a favor and cut off contact with her. She's not going to get her life together either way with you standing in reserve. You deserve a woman who you can have a real flesh and blood relationship with, you've already wasted 2 years of your life don't you think that's enough?

Answer 6

Well it's been known to happen. Ever read Madame Bovary or Anna Karenina?

Answer 7

she won't ever leave.

it is over

write a letter to her husband to retaliate

Answer 8

no, dont get your hopes up, she likes it the way it is, she wont leave

Answer 9

yes, yes, yes, yes...................................she did....
if its just phone, internet contact, nude web viewing, etc....its all fantasy....lol....so forget about it...............:(