she's the one leaving him cause her parents don't want them together any more(i know it's stupid)he's so sad and i hate to see him like that. what can i say or do to help him?
2006-07-25 11:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by BROWNLYN 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All you can do is be there for him. Let him do the talking and you listen. Don't go bad mouthing her because that won't make him feel better, and it will come back on you if they get back together. He might want to say some bad stuff now, but he doesn't mean it. Just be supportive. He will appreciate someone just listening more than anything.
2006-07-25 11:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Vicm0322 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
you comfort him,but reason with him that way he can get closure. If she couldn't face up to her parents,then how much more courage would she have had for anyone else if they were still together?
Also,you can tell him,she'd regret it. I know this personally because i was in the same situation,love know no boundaries,but in most cases a year from now,if its not parents,its change in the opinion of the other person.
2006-07-25 18:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be a friend to him and be supportive, just be prepared for what will happen. He's lonely right now, and missing some female attention. If you provide that for him, he'll likely crush on you a little which can lead to mixed signals. If you're okay with all that, then proceed.
2006-07-25 18:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING....MYOB! Listen and say you're sorry, but don't offer any advice or get involved. They might be back together next week for all you know and you're only getting one side of the story. OH....you must be interested in dating this poor soul once he is free, eh? Let him alone for a while till he get's over it, ok?
2006-07-25 18:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend and listen. Try to do things with him that will take his mind of the current situation (not sex).
2006-07-25 18:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take it like a man. It happens to everyone, and he will get over it.
2006-07-25 18:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can comfort him and say you are really sorry and offer if there is anything you can do you will be there
2006-07-25 18:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by cubsfreak2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the strip club.
2006-07-25 18:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by jason m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Talk to him in public places or on the phone. Do u have a man? Let him hang out a few night with your man.
Buy him a copy of VIBE, but avoid having rebound SEX with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-25 18:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by BmoreBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do i raelly need to spell it out. yuo need to get down and dirrrty
2006-07-25 18:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by davidhasselh0ff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋