Come on you guys, yea it does seem impossible that i could be leading such a wonderful life but it's not. i got my job because i was a voulnteer since i was 10, that was 5 years ago. yea i may just be in highschool and be the only one married there beside my husband, but we take care of eachother. people who kno me or my husband kno that it was bound to happen sooner or later...so we thought the sooner the better...we've been married for 2 months and we already hav a beautiful house that was a wedding gift from our parents, but its on their property. my family's the second riches family in santa cruz. they own 4 mansions, i didnt want to got the easy way through life so i got a job and got married. i pay for my own food and supplies...
is that not good enough for the judgemental people out ther?
2006-07-25
11:20:56
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haha im not braggin, one.
im not saying that what i did was rite either, but i mean i still live the life of a normal 15 yr old. i mean i go to school, i go to work, i party, i have friends...and i have a "boyfriend"( who is really my husband.) and i love my life, but when ppl say im spoiled or braggin thats what gets to me. im not bragging caz im asking something or explaining it. and im sorry if you feel that way.
2006-07-25
11:31:19 ·
update #1
People will judge you no matter what lifestyle you lead.
If you were poor and living in a trailer, people would judge you.
If you were college educated with a masters degree, people would judge you.
If you waited until you were 30 to get married, people would judge you.
The list goes on forever.
Live your life to the fullest and make sure to not take for granted your luck in life!
2006-07-25 11:26:09
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answered by sarah_lynn 4
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FREEWILL gave MAN choices; choices gave MAN differences of opinion; Differences of opinion gave MAN knowledge and ignorance; knowledge and ignorance gave MAN bias' and prejudices. From all of this we have the following; war and destruction; crime and punishment; rape and murder; good and bad; right and wrong; Good and Evil!
Hence the words Pre-Judge. One prejudges, when one doesn't have all the facts!
Their is a reason that Justice is depicted as a blind person; when one cannot see the demeanor, dress, style, impoverished appearance, or body language of any other, then and only then, when all the facts are in can judgement be made.
Unfortunately MAN as a species uses eyes to see only what it wants. and with out all the facts, stumbles blindly forward, causing more damage than should have occurred in beginning.
Communication, or rather the lack of it, is usually the cause of man's fears.
Judge not, for ye may be judged.
After your supplement to your question, are you not now also passing judgement on those who you assume have judged you?
2006-07-25 11:45:18
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answered by Insight 4
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geez girl that's young- hope for the best for you-
but how many people can actually say that somebody(mommy or daddy)bought them a house & on their property- that's just lucky and plain bragging- Anywayz do you pay the taxes on that land_prob not cauze its your parents did you have to pay a mortgate or work your *** off to say this house is mine... I did this sorry (WE) you & your husband- Im glad though that your trying to make your own way- but try getting a house without the help- you be surprised-how much you'll feel better when you feel proud from something you accomplished on your own & you won't have to worry about jugdemental people
2006-07-25 11:33:53
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answered by bugz 4
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There are some out there it does not matter. I have worked since I was 13 babysitting, mowing lawns, McDonald's, 7-11, floor technician, and know well for everyjob I have had I paid for my 1st car, paid the insurance so I could drive it otherwise it sat in the drive way till I could pay it. Bought my first house was not given to me. people feel you need to earn it, so you can respect it more. I will pay half for my Daughters first cars they have to pay the other half and pay the insurance, Housing that will be on them and there future in work.
2006-07-25 11:37:19
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answered by LILELA DRAGON 1
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because getting married at 15 takes out things of your life, and u may wish to have things differently when your older, when your that young you usually do not have that much wisdom. lol thats why everyone is so judgemental around u because u made such a big choice at such a young age.
2006-07-25 11:25:08
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answered by jared l 4
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People SHOULD judge others for safety reasons... i mean come on if you don't judge a person then you can get yourself into a whole hell of a lot of trouble.
you on the other hand are just trying to show off. which i don't care if your the richest girl in California your act to be judged by material things stinks
Good for you for going to school and getting a job... but admit it you hate your life.
2006-07-25 11:28:36
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answered by Kittie_Nash 5
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It seems, unfortunately, that judging people is human nature.Some are a lot more judgemental than others. That is because they are very insecure. They don't feel good about themselves, so they have to take it out on somebody. They are also jealous, so they are judgemental about what you have and they don't. I feel like they are ignoring the plank in their eye and focusing on the dust in someone else's eye. They don't want anyone to see or dislike their faults, so they make them your fault.
2006-07-25 11:28:59
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answered by Andi 2
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no person that's in your situation brags about how much they make sorry hunnie, i work with a girl that was married at 15 yrs old so its not a big deal , sorry to judge but theres always an occasion
2006-07-25 11:38:20
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answered by lovesugarkisses 4
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well alot of people judge to cover up their own insecurities. as far as judging you and your situation with being part of the second richest family in town well i guess that comes with the territory, just let it roll of your back and live your life as extravagant as you want, because after all it is your life. P.S. bravo to your parents for helping you out.
2006-07-25 11:27:32
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answered by dumbdumb 4
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First use spell checker then say that again. Ok. And frankly, I don't give a crap about your "problems" I bet you're the judgemental one, and are WAY to worried about what other people think.
2006-07-25 11:25:33
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answered by Das ist mein fluch 5
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