Have I knocked up another girl? 2 kids before 17? Is it possible?

Question

My ex girlfriend has just given birth to my son. A few weeks ago i had sex with a different girl and the condom split. She said she didnt think thered be anything to worry about. But just today she told me that she was 'a week late' and that she might be pregnant. Last time i spoke to her she was planning to go out and get a test. Surely i cant have 2 children before i hit 17! Is she definitely pregnant? If the test says positive is it ALWAYS right? Please help!

I USED A BLOODY CONDOM IS IT MY FAULT IT BROKE!!! READ BEFORE YOU COMPLETELY INSULT ME! AND DONT TELL ME HOW TO LIVE MY LIFE...LOOKING FOR SOME SERIOUS HELP

Answer 1

Holy crap get off this guys butt!!! He asked for help, not for people to rip him a new one.

Hey dude, people make mistakes and a lot of people have made the same mistake multiple times (including the people ripping you a new one right now!) This multiple mistake just happens to be a big one. All you can do is be there. It's a mistake but it was both of your mistakes. There are multiple chocies in birth control for men AND women so don't put all the blame on yourself. Both made the mistake...both pay for the mistake.

Now on the other hand, it may not be a "mistake". 2...5..10 years down the road, as long as you do what you need to, those two "mistakes" are going to be the love of your life. I know it's scary right now cause your young...just hold on and be there for those kids. They are going to be scared too and I would think the young ladies will be as well. Work it out together. Be there for them.

Remember, condoms don't always work 100% of the time. Talk with your partner before hand next time and make sure you are both taking precautions.

Good luck to you and stay positive. It will work out.

Answer 2

If the test says positive then it is positive. Those things are never wrong, I worked in a lab for a long time. However, I would make sure that you get a DNA test for your son and if the other girl is prego. Teen girls can be sneaky! Maybe you should take some education on how to properly use a condom though. That should not have happened. Don't mean to sound all adult but dude you shouldn't be doing it if you don't have the means to pay for it. Especially since it already happened once.

Answer 3

Honey, it's POSSIBLE. Anything's possible. First of all, I recommend you to NOT HAVE SO MUCH SEX. You have a son! Isn't that enough? Consider the options. You might be able to handle this! Two children, 9 months apart, with two different women. How will you handle this financially? Please tell me you are atleast helping out financially with your ex girlfriend (whether she's your current gf or an ex!) Tests are usually right. It could be a false positive. If you want, have her take it another time! I wish you the best of luck. And please if she is pregnant and she does have the child, be supportive! You're young. You should wait before having sex now. Imagine you will have a second child. You realize the job(s) you're going to have to take? To support both children? Discuss with this girl the options.

Answer 4

This is NOT funny as you seem to think it may be ! You'd better keep it in your pants. I'm sure you're getting a kick out of thinking you have two kids by two different women, but I'm sure you can't pay for them, and is this what you really want? Knocked up is what you use when you don't have respect for the girl. If you can have unprotected sex you can have kids at any age. I don't buy that the condom was split. That's just a lame excuse. It's time to pay the piper now.

Answer 5

If the pregnancy test says positive, it is not always right.

If it IS right, it is not always yours.

If it IS right and it IS yours, it is not always carried to full term.

But you know... I think you need to be a little more careful, man! You're gonna catch something nasty and itchy if you keep this act up (and you'd better not hope you catch that thing that buggers up your immune system).

Get an STD check.



Oh yeah - and if it IS right and it IS yours and it IS carried to full term, be prepared to pay child support or live a lifetime (18) years of poverty

Answer 6

I think if she is preggers u are screwed!!
but she might be late for other reasons..
and u were trying to be safe.... so i hate the way ppl are saying u shud be more careful!
you might be lucky and it not be another baby!!
i dont know if its too late for morning after... but u might be lucky.
tests arent always right... im feeling for ya.. and ur gal! good luck... its only a week late so far... best wishes! xx

Answer 7

go to a clinic just to make sure cause some tests do come out wrong. dude, all i gotta say is i'm glad i'm not in ur shoes. it's hard enough with just one, now imagine two! anyway, take a dna test with both of them cause i hate to say this, but we gals can lie about such things. not that i would, in case anyone wonders.

Answer 8

you are ready have i kid so you know that you men can march,
and if the condom broke, than all i can say is yes and child sopport.
and make sure she didnt sleep with anyone alse or you better say dna test :) good luck and double up next time

Answer 9

Some advice, you are an idiot and need to stop being so stupid and careless. I'm sure you can't even take care of yourself to be trying to raise two babies. Use a freakin condom dummy.

Answer 10

Is this how you are going to spend your life? Rutting like a rabbit in heat? Get a life, guy. Keep your pants on and put your nose in a book. I don't want to be supporting a dead beat.