my ex cheated on me but kinda didnt but parents think he did and there arent changing there minds but, i love this kid to death and he tells me he is sorry and that he loves me we stopped talking for about a month i tried movin on and so did he but it didnt work out! my parent dont want me talkin to him but i do anyway i try to keep it secret like call him at night and he calls me restricted so they dont know but im so sick of hindin it from them i absolutley love him but i dont know what to do about my parents how are they going to forgive him, i tell him to apologize to them but hes scared of my dad so how could it work? ahould he figure out a way to apologize or should i do somethin else?
2006-07-25 10:51:40 · 17 answers · asked by Carly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Learn to spell.
2006-07-25 10:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Gods that was hard to read. Anyway, you can't make anyone change their opinions on matters of love. If you try, they will just resist more. It's your decision to live with if you decide to stay with a cheater. Your parents are only trying to protect you from being hurt again though. You may not think so, but they actually do care, although the ways in which they show it may not always seem right to you.
2006-07-25 11:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all on him sweetie. If he's afraid, then he is guilty. Why would the innocent be afraid? If you are not married to him and/or are underage, your parents can see right through him all the more. If he is innocent then it is your parents undying love for you that they will not forgive him right away. They've known and loved you much longer than they've known him, you have to give much consideration to that fact.
He needs to face the consequences of his actions. Just because he may be innocent, he has to face the fact that he put himself in a position to be misinterpreted in his actions. That in itself says a lot. I bet you if you did something like that, you would have hell trying to explain how you ended up in the circumstances where someone would interpret what you were doing as cheating in the first place.
Think about it and guard your heart at all cost!!!! That's what your parents are tying to do for you.
2006-07-25 10:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, u cant always do what ur parents want ok, think about what u want for a second, and make ur decision from that!
u guys are wack what is wrong with the girl's spelling she is just typing fast and finding a easy way to spell things with the same pronounciation, god dame it man, give the girl a break
2006-07-25 10:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you, he'd prove it to your parents as well.
try to see things from your parents' point of view. that's the best way to resolve any problem. think, "why do they feel like that? why do they disapprove of him?" and work around it like that. they probably just want respect for their little girl, which you should demand as well.
i dated two guys who my parents hated, and it ended up falling apart. because they're older, they saw right through them. i've been dating another guy for 2years and hes so kind and supportive, and they see that, and approve. parents arent always right, but if he cheated on you once, what's to lead you, or them, to believe he won't do it again?
sometimes we're blinded by love.
2006-07-25 11:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not man enough to face your dad and be honest...then hes a boy....boys are awaste of time and not worth risking your relationship with your parents or the trust they have in you. If he'll face up to your parents and explain himself and his true intentions, he's a keeper and a young man and worth spending time with...if not...you will meet a man one day and know what I mean
2006-07-25 10:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by sragic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. Then find your vowels and shift key on the key board.
Drop him. He cheated, and you look like a fool for staying with him. He'll do it again. And eventually you will become insucure and thing every man is cheating on you. Then no man will like you. It's a crazy cycle. Drop him and move on.
2006-07-25 10:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by JulyBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, go back to school and learn how to write.
after this is done you can find a better class of guy.
once your parents have seen this the first impression will not leave. if you need to be happy with your man and your parents... move on
2006-07-25 10:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things arent right, then they arent right. If there is distrust, there always will be. He cheated on you. The end--period. Move on to someone who will treat you better.
2006-07-25 10:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, the only mind you have to change is yours. show yourself respect and get with him no further than a friendship. love will eventually diminish and you shall carry on with somebody else.
2006-07-25 10:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Poe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continually start up with a topic ou comprehend the different man or woman is interested in and knows plenty about. this way you start up off and the different man or woman for your marvel will take over the verbal replace.
2016-11-25 23:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋