Why do men hate women..apart from those who are decorations so much?

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Here is what I mean - women are not allowed to be themselves.. they have to correct themselves to the max, make up, tan, starve themselves etc All the ad's, celeb culture treat women like decorations - the underlying message is 'you are not ok as you are'.. Glance at the fhm row in newsagents and it always got almost naked women with the same figure (perfect -air brushed - young) and different head.. To not be slim, gorgeous and a decoration = in our society to be subject to humilation.. not the same is true for men.

Here is what I mean - women are not allowed to be themselves.. they have to correct themselves to the max, make up, tan, starve themselves etc All the ad's, celeb culture treat women like decorations - the underlying message is 'you are not ok as you are'.. Glance at the fhm row in newsagents and it always got almost naked women with the same figure (perfect -air brushed - young) and different head.. To not be slim, gorgeous and a decoration = in our society to be subject to humilation.. not the same is true for men.

Here is what I think - biologically men are programmed to seek a healthy mate but also want to ensure paternity so cultural phenomenon such as internet porn is a dichotomy. On one hand want women to put out - on the other hate them for it.. s****, w***** etc all those kinda terms.. her pleasure neglible..

I don't mean individual men and women I mean more in the context of violence, having to be beautiful first before anything, paid less, men seeing them as sex objec

Answer 1

Men do treat women with comtempt,many of them are liars and will tell a woman whatever it is they think she wants to hear,usually just to get her into bed.Women really dont seem to realise how men as a general rule think;of course there are exceptions to this as there are indeed women who lie to get their own way also.
Porn helps to perpetuate this image of women being there for the pleasure of men,she must have the tanned body,fake boobs,hair and make up and above all be willing to do whatever the man wants sexually with no emmotional attachment.
The internet has spread this false image of women even more than could ever have been achieved through top shelf magazines or seedy private cinemas,it is becoming the norm for women to be treated as objects and they are ever more dispensible in this throw away society.
No one can honestly tell me that any girl would want to be a porn actress unless circumstances dictated that they felt it was necessary to earn money.How many porn actresses would be happy for their daughters to follow in their footsteps,how many men would be happy with their daughter to be become a porn actress;not many if any,I bet !

Answer 2

Misandry is not considered a crime, just a blemish on the good name of women by many feminists. Many women become 'man haters' because it is the fashionable thing to do when they are in the company of other feminists. Ever noticed just how man unfriendly the PC supporters are? Even Germain Greer admitted that she likes men (she married one, and has two sons), and one could not ask for a more feminist women than her. The trouble with some women is that they feel the need to be more affirmative, more radical, more feminist and less tolerant than other women just to prove that they are 'good' feminists.

Answer 3

Your question is odd, but slightly leading. Of course all men dont hate all women and vise versa. However, there is historical evidence that male dominated societies arose out of fear of womans power. I believe that is true. people often seek to control and opress what they do not understand.

Answer 4

I think no men hate women, they avoid or dislike certain types. Men they love women. They are fascinating, beautiful creation of God. Only several days in the month they are terrible.

Answer 5

It's the cave man instinct. We had a senior manager where I worked and he thought that women were only good for one thing. Not a happy cave man when he was told that sloppy seconds were not my style. Guess what I don't work there any more!!!!!!

Answer 6

THEY DONT. no more than the other way round, ever heard of "men are from mars....women are from venus" it's misunderstanding and incompatibility (everyone makes mistakes!) which leads to hurt that for SOME leads to spite and bitterness.

Answer 7

it's because women's bodies are equivalent to a toilet to men - somewhere for dumping/relief of surplus bodily fluid. men do not see beyond this function because their need for sexual relief is the same as hunger/thirst/breath. of course the more evolved/intelligent of males may see past this but essentially that is what we are here for

Answer 8

You're female, I presume? You've met some very poor examples of men.

Answer 9

$hit, YOU again? How many questions (novels) are you going to write today?
Men hate women because women treat men like dirt, cheat, lie and take everything we own and then try to blame it on us.
Women love pain, turmoil and misery and HATE us when we aren't as miserable as they are -- so they spread the 'joy'.
Boo-hoo.

Answer 10

I love women, they are generally better people then men.