we come on here fro good advice..not for ya'll to make us feel like we're lower than dirt...and when a young girl askes a question about being pregent a lot of people are judgeing...like ya'll never made mistakes at a young age...we need words of encouragement...the prolem is already here..so we don't need ya'll tell us wat we did wrong..we alraedy kno...we just need a few words to guide us n this wild ride that will be wit us for the rest of our life!!!!I 16 teen and this one lady made me wanna ounch her in her mouth..but not everyone is rude...some people really healped me..but for those who dodn't...ya'll kno where ya'll can go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(
2006-07-25 10:30:17 · 16 answers · asked by .. 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's the anonymity and consequent lack of personal responsibility. Since nobody can hold anyone accountable, people feel free to be mean. I agree with you--it's bad form.
2006-07-25 10:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by wanderklutz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey,
having a baby all alone and young is so hard. Baby's are beautiful things when your older, settled and financially secure. Anybody who tells you that all you need is love is not being realistic. I know all this because I had a baby all alone at 16 yrs. The father cared, but not enough to be there for me, he could hardly be there for himself. My mom wanted little to do with it.
I want you to ask yourself what is best for the only person in this equation who didn't have a choise. Have you ever considered adoption? There are so many people in the world dying inside because they can't have there own children. Let them be the parent you wish you could be. It will hurt, but it will change you beyond belief to do something for someone (your baby) that will be so good for them. Think of your baby. check out itsaboutlove.org if you want to.
Its not a desision ever to be made lightly. It felt like I was dying inside. And yet from the ashes I grew into a more mature, compassionate and determined person. The kind of person I like. I later graduated from college, married the most wonderful man who loves me and we have 3 beautiful children that we adore. I have a picture of a baby on my fidge that I look at and still love. But the greatest joy is knowing how happy he is with his adoptive parents. I gave him a good family, that was something I couldn't have given him at 16. He gave me a new life, which was something I could never have had otherwise.
Think about it
2006-07-25 14:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by gardengirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really answer "Am I pregnant" questions because there are 5 asked every minute. I do tell them to stop acting so immature and go get a test. It's the only way they will know. I also tell them to make sure to use protection next time so they don't end up in the same situation. Maybe if their parents had told them this there wouldn't be so many teen pregnancies.
2006-07-25 10:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by optimistic_dr3am3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey I understand....trust me I have asked for some advice on a couple different things about my son that is 9 1/2 months and I got some people telling me I was doing things wrong..and taht I needed to do it differently but its more of what you feel is right..you will know after the baby is born of what is right and what is wrong..but sometimes getting advice is fine to get a second opinion..but just don't listen to the rude ones...they seem to think they know best...cuz they have kids, but guess what there are plenty of others that do have kids and would agree with you...Good luck and god bless
2006-07-25 10:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by dawn8_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask the oh so famous question "Am I pregnant?"Honey if you look threw the questions you will notice that is asked like 10 times a day.Or my boobs hurt ....could I be???If you are old enough to have sex and you think you are pregnant then you need to go get a test from a store or a clinic.I was pregnant at 16 years old.I got threw it.
2006-07-25 11:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just like that...
My mom got pregnant with me at 16 and I turned out pretty well.
Just tell people that in England when they are 16 they are considered adults and can make their own decisions/.
2006-07-25 10:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_little_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, calm down! you know that most of the people on here don't have sh*t else to do... at the end of the day, no one's opinion on here matters... and most of these folk wouldn't know good advice or guidance if it bit them on the nose!
you gotta take care of you and your baby... try to remember that people are rude and ignorant AND not worth you being angry and stressed out over. live life with no regrets, dear. this is a learning experience... :)
2006-07-25 10:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by spreejo456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if this is rude, but why do some people on here not check their spelling before posting? It makes it hard to answer the question.
2006-07-25 10:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by ildjb@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you hun! Actually I probably was one of the ones who has said rude stuff before, but honestly Im sorry. But, one thing about being an adult is excepting criticism and mistakes and womening up to your responsibilities!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-25 10:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by MissSmartt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay don't let mean people get to you i was a teen mom also and i know people can be very rude and act like we are the lowest of the low just keep your head up and pay no attention to those fools with no life.
2006-07-25 10:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋