what would you tell her?
2006-07-25 10:23:39 · 24 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh Hell NO! baby she wasn't there then I wouldn't help unless there was some actual real good reasons for her falling off and not being there calling and stuff. Think do she love me and am I helping my girlfriend or am I being a ATM for her and a bandaid for someone that knows she can get money from me.
2006-07-25 10:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by ladeelesbian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her why did she not ask the person she has been dating for the last six month to help her out. In lending money to someone if you can not do without it then dont lend it. By her being out of your life and wanting to borrow money I would also get her to sign a note saying when and how she plans to pay it back.
2006-07-25 17:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call her your "girlfriend" and you haven't hardly talked to her for 6 months? Hum, is something wrong with this picture. Tell her to pay her house payment and THEN call you.
If you fall for this you are being used big time and should be spanked.....or does she already do that to you?
2006-07-25 17:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs you now for the money only. I predict that if you lend it to her, that's the last you will see of the money and her. From what you've stated, she is NOT much of a girlfriend, if she barely communicates with you in 6 months.
2006-07-25 17:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol if she hasn't had anything to do with you for 6 months she isn't a gf tell her to find the house payment from the other guy she has been banging for the last 6 months..
2006-07-25 17:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO I'M GESSING THOSE LAST 6 MONTHS YOU BARELY SAW EACH OTHER. AND TO TOP IT OFF SHE HARDLY CALLED. AND NOW IN HER TIME OF NEED SHE RUNS TO YOU I CANT EVEN BELIEVE YOU STILL REFER TO HER AS YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO ME IT SEEMS SHE'S USING YOU I WOULDNT LET HER BORROW THE MONEY INLESS SHE HAS KIDS BUT LEAVE HER SHE'LL ONLY REALLY LOOK FOR YOU WHEN SHE IS IN NEED. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-25 17:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel comfortable loaning you the money. When she asks why tell her that you feel she has been pulling away from you lately and you feel like she is just using you now.
I do like Fordkillers answer though.
2006-07-25 17:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her to get bent. Actually, my exact words would be "Hell no, not on your life you gold-digging whore."
Saying anything less direct means you are whipped. BIG TIME! Stand up for yourself. There's other women out there, ones who won't try to sh*t on you.
2006-07-25 17:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by MdnytTokr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't call or talk to you for six months is she even your girlfriend anymore?
2006-07-25 17:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point her in the direction of the closest bank.
2006-07-25 17:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi 4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋