I have tried to stay out of their personal business as far as the kids are concerned, yet she still tries to find some reason to complain to him about us being together. I have always been friendly to her when we have to be around her and still that is not good enough. She left him and remarried shortly after. I can't understand what the problem is.
2006-07-25 09:56:43 · 18 answers · asked by Steph V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-07-25 10:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by PrIsSy LoVeS yOu 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The problem is they have a history together and they will always have a history because of the children. Maybe he wasn't so easy to live with and she's still p***** off. Since you're the girlfriend and not the wife try to stay out of the picture as much as possible when they have to be together. She knows you're there whether she sees you or not.
2006-07-25 10:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply? She's jealous. She views you as her replacement. It doesn't matter that she has her own thing going on. The truth is, though, there isn't much you can do about it or to change her mind. What I'm more concerned about is your boyfriend. Does he stand up for you? The only reason she is getting away with this behavior is because it's being tolerated.
2006-07-25 10:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pumpkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want you or him to be happy. Sounds like you have a typically ex-bit** wife on your hands. Either you deal with it or you leave it. You can tell your boyfriend to tell her to stop, which he ought to do anyway without you having to say anything. He may like the drama that she is causing over him. I have had plenty of ex's with baggage. It never worked out. As long as they have a child, they will always be tied to the ex. So get out there and beat her a** and tell her she better keep her mouth shut or move on and find someone with less drama. Good luck.
2006-07-25 10:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't do anything but be pleasant to her. It's your boyfriends responsibility to make sure things are as cordial as possible. You weren't with her; he was.
Many men will just kick back and be in the middle to either boost their ego or to not have to deal with it. Tell your boyfriend that he needs to step up and be a responsible man and father and talk things out with his ex-wife like adults. You don't' have to be friends; just cordial. It's not about the 3 adults; it's about the kids being in a comfortable atmosphere, not the adults.
2006-07-25 10:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this is just jealousy and I assume she is intimidated by you in some sad way.
Enjoy it, Inside. Its okay to take some enjoyment out of a uncomfortable situation.
Just keep it to yourself.
You can't really blame her for wanting what you have after all you want him, right?
As long as she respects you and keeps her distance just deal with it.
Remember she is miserable because she has lost control of him.
2006-07-25 10:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to keep her control over him, because she wants to keep him on a leash. You don't have to like her, but be tolerant for the kids. Limit the time you talk/see her and continue staying neutral to their difference. Unfortunately, she is the mother of his kids and is not going anywhere.
2006-07-25 10:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through kind of the same thing. my boyfriend of 4 years has two kids with his previous girlfriend. him and i aren't anything new but, she still continues to be a problem. shes just jealous. she feels that even though they cant be together, shes the one with his children so she should still be the only one his interested in. its a bunch of crap! forget her because its never going to stop. just pay attention to YOUR family. shes not in it anymore.she screwed that up. its your turn. rub it in her face because shes never going to be as mature as you are about this.
2006-07-25 10:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by ☼♥Manda♥☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably that she didn't want him, but didn't want anyone else to want him. My ex-partners ex was a nightmare until we split up. When she got what she wanted, ie- we split up, she took on a personality transplant. She liked the fact that he was on his own. Some people eh !!
2006-07-25 10:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by madam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more like if i cant have him then im gonna try to make it impossibel for anybody else to have him even if i did remarry. you have to tell him to talk to her with you there so she will know exactly where HE stands with the situation if that doesnt happen then tell him you cant handle the baby mama drama and leave...
2006-07-25 10:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's an ex wife. That's how a lot (if not most) of them are. Unfortunately that's life.
2006-07-25 10:00:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋