he is devilishly handsome and I get hard every time he is near me. I'm not sure if he is straight or gay, what should I do? we have a work party this weekend and when he is good and drunk I plan on jumping him.....is this ok?
2006-07-25 09:49:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, don't jump him. If you intend on having any type of good friendship or relationship with him don't do it. Instead be friendly to him. Strick up some good conversation and see what you can find out. one good question to ask him is "do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend"? See how he responds to that. This may help you find out what you need to know. If he opens the question up to he has niether, then ask him out for a beer.
2006-07-25 10:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and sus out the situation before you go and jump him. I have the same problem with a co worker who is now a close friend. He knows Im gay and i think he knows I like him, but its so hard. Especially in the showers after the gym!
2006-07-25 09:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,NO,NO,NO, come on guy, if your not even sure if he is gay, why would you try to jump him...while he's drunk...so he can beat the crap out of you if he is not. There is a better way to find out, try striking up a conversation, something that can be gaged towards that life style, but don't go and just throw your self on him.
2006-07-25 10:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to meet you for coffee or lunch as a friend and see if there is chemistry between you. Don't mess up a good work relationship. Use some discretion. If you get comfortable enough, tell him you are gay , with no expectations and then see how he responds.
2006-07-25 17:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell ANYONE you are interested in him!! And observe him at the party. If he's drunk, he may loosen up. Just make it your point to talk with him at the party and see if he takes to you. But don't be all over him, and don't let the rest of the crew know anything that you guys do.
2006-07-25 10:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he is gay. If so see if he is interested in you. If no on either question, move on. Don't come on to someone that is not interested in you. That is sexual harrassment and that can cost you your job.
2006-07-25 10:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he can get you for sexual harrasment if you jump on him. Just talk with him and try to get him to talk about himself say about your ex partners and maybe he will open up also...
2006-07-25 10:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, act like you are both drunk and blame it on the alcohol!!
2006-07-25 10:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Seven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no cause then he file sexual harassment against you. Just say "hey are you family", if so then hit on him if he is like "huh" then just move along.
2006-07-29 09:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by Tragic Remedy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh of course. just jump on and start humping.
2006-07-25 10:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mark F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋