i really need your help?

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i am really not a nun as u might have guessed, but that is way better than what i am i am a pregnant teen at the age of 12 because i got raped and i was impregnated my parents will not let me have the baby aborted. so now i am stuck with it i am eight and a 8months pregnant and i am HUGE. i need some pregnancy tips.

i just found out about 3 weeks ago (because i finally felt ready to know the sex)that it was a boy! i am going to name him Blaze. (weird but i love that name)

Answer 1

I find this hard to believe after reviewing other questions you posted.

Answer 2

I am really sorry to hear that a girl your age should have to be going through all this. But in answer to your question make sure you eat healthy, do some excersice, and read I think it's my first year of pregancy. It will tell you all about what to expect during pregnancy and labor and if you are keeping your baby read on what to expect the first year and it will tell you on all the normal things that go on the first year of baby's life. I hope your parents are giving you support. Good luck!

Answer 3

just hang in there sign up for lamaz and make sure to go to counseling,you also want to sign up for state assistance go to rape counseling and get as much help as you can emotionally because this is hard for you and the baby emotionally also visit teen pregnancey sites to get advice and help join a support group for teens and talk to your school counselor if you need more advice please feel free to email anytime hang in there ok you here are a few sites that might help dont hate your child it wasn't your fault ad it wasnt your childs fault its hard not to have resentment but, just try ok.....If you parents are supportive maybe you and your parents can look at these sites below together ok........Preparing your self emotionally and mentally isvery important if you are not into counseling get some self help books or start a support group of your own if you need help let me know I can send you some resources.Take care of yourself. get the support of you parents friend and people who will be ther for you tat you can trust. Dont be afraid to ask questions I have 4 kids and I am in my 30's and I still ask questions [e-mail]
http://www.secasa.com.au/index.php/survivors/4/15
http://www.teenage-pregnancy.org/
http://www.webmd.com
http://www.coolnurse.com/rape.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/teen_pregnancy_rates.htm
http://www.motherhelp.info/rape.htm

Answer 4

First of all apply for WIC which will help give your child all the nutritional needs. Second keep your child updated with the doctor and also yourself. Since your parents made you keep the baby let them know that they need to help you raise your baby into a child of god(excellent). Sweetheart God is not going to put more on you than you can bear, seek guidance through your local churches and I will also pray for you.

Answer 5

Sorry about what had happened. But just wait until you have the baby, you will see awhole new world. Yeah you might be young but parenting can be done. Any tips or advice just email me at [e-mail]

Answer 6

aww i would never get my baby aborted so you should thank them for that. also i think blaze is cute. poor girl. just get alot of sleep and give this baby tons of attention. good luck and im sure youlll be a GREAT mother.

Answer 7

Type in pregnancy on the search bar of your browser. There are tons of websites that can answer your questions.

Answer 8

Rest drink plenty of water and relax. Good good Luck!