Ok so this girl Danielle is rly pissing me off, she excludes me in everything sshe talks about like her friends, and she talks **** to me and i've done so much for her and this is what i get, she treats me like a extra friend incase the others cant do anything, im sick of her doing this and like im so nice to her and she like doesnt care about my feelings and like funny situations she talks about that i was in, she will like cut me out of the story...we've been friends for a year but im SO sick of her!.......wow what should i do!!!!
2006-07-25 09:46:44 · 15 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when she talks to you don't talk to her
2006-07-25 09:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by lilke-ke h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i've been in a similar situation before. This is what you do, ok you should find a new friend and start to become close to them and let Danielle feel a little jealous and act like you don't need her, like you've moved on and she'll all wanna be your friend even more. But when she does just don't jump in and be buddy buddy with her again, because she doesn't seem like a good friend and she doesn't deserve your friendship. She's taking advange of you, like the saying " fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." If you stick around to be her friend long enough for her to hurt you like that AGAIN then you can't really only blame her if you let her walk all over you like that. Trust me it will work, you were obviously not meant to be friends for very long if she's gonna treat you like that. and after you do that jealousy thing you should keep an eye on her...
2006-07-25 16:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Angel_Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need her acceptance? Friendship is a two way street and it sounds like she hasn't done her part. You can't change her, no matter how nice you are, so just stop being friends with her. People will try to get away with what other people tolerate. It's not your fault that she is a b*tch, but as long as you tolerate her behavior, she'll continue to be that way. Friends have their ups and downs, but they should mostly make you happy not upset. This girl is NOT your friend.
2006-07-25 16:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Pumpkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word for any thing. Do you really have to be around this person? She doesn't sound like anybody's friend to me! A real friend wouldn't treat you like that. I suggest you stay clear of her and find a new friend. Why would you continue to put up with that kind of treatment?
2006-07-25 17:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Danielle needs to find another friend becuz you need to move on!!!!!Someone who talks bad about you and stuff like that does not need to be your friend. You dont have to take her out of your life completly (unless you want to) but you dont need to be hangin w/ her............GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-07-25 16:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Volleyball15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you ready for this? forgive her, forgiveness is not for her but for you . bitterness will eat you from the inside out and make you a miserable person so forgive her and move on
2006-07-25 16:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her totally and cut her out of your Life, no phonecall, no email, no hi and bye...if you really hate her to this extent.
2006-07-25 16:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by TEsha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't realize how you feel, so tell her. Either that or you need to get some new friends
2006-07-25 16:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by tony2456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her ... if shes any kind of friend she'll realize soon enough and try 2 change/fix things
2006-07-25 16:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by A0I5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make better friends. life's too short to have people like her ruining it.
2006-07-25 17:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you think of her and ignore her or you could try cursing her out
2006-07-25 16:55:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋