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Thought I had the perfect guy, dated for a while, didn't move too fast took our time saying I love you and met each other families. He agreed to relocate and I supported him until he found a job, which took almost 3 months. Even had his children come into the home for the summer and I basically supported both of them along with my son. Then one day he just says he will miss his children when they go back home, quit his job and stated he was going to move back to home state. I'm not clingy, have a good job, no baby daddy drama, attend a university, cook, clean and financially stable. Although he stayed in the spartment for another 10 days with his children after the break up until his "mother" drove 16 hours to pick them up I was nice about everything. Now he calls me last night as if we were still a couple, WTF?

2006-07-25 09:44:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

5 answers

Your too good for him, hes using you, find someone who will respect and love you, the way you want to be loved.

2006-07-25 13:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jewell 3 · 5 3

I think you need to really decide how you feel about this,If your Done! State That!

But don't front like your Done if your Not, If you want him back take him back!

But don't be stupid, you know how things rolled out last time, you need to be clear about how you feel about what happened and let him know just that, Communicate what you are willing or unwilling to deal with and depending on his response, you may go into it thinking one thing and after expressing yourself and re-evaluating what actually happened you might change your Mind about how you feel about the situation.

The real point is to be honest with yourself, You clearly don't NEED HIM, so just decide if you Want him (OR NOT!!!)

2006-07-25 09:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Just My Thoughts... 4 · 0 0

did he actually state that ya'll we breaking up, because he might think that he is just moving back but yall are staying together doing the long distance thing... u need to clear things up!

2006-07-25 09:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0 0

that's because he is takin advantage of you..don't ever let him come back into your life

2006-07-25 09:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by FiShiE 2 · 0 0

Sounds like he used you. You need to ask him, WTF! If anything, let out all your steam on him.

2006-07-25 09:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Xena 3 · 0 0

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