Ex and I broke up and agreed to be friends, but then he calls me last night as if we were still a couple and expected everything to be okay. I'm just trying to be cool because it is the possiblity I can be pregnant due to missed period, but it can also be the stress from the break up. I'm just trying to be nice until I positive I am or not. We are older and have good stable jobs, but we now live in two differnt states.
2006-07-25 09:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You two agreed to be friends, right? That is why he probably called you acting as if everything is okay. In his book, it is. And I am pretty sure he is calling because he still has feelings for you. You need to decide whether or not you want him in your life. If you are pregnant, you need to decide if you want to try to make a relationship work with him, or just keep him at side for future care of your child. If you don't want to be involved at all due to him being abusive and etc... if that is the case, don't tell him there is a baby. If he is a good person and would be a good father, then I would tell him, he deserves to know. If you are pregnant and he wants to try to make it work, then give it a chance.
2006-07-25 09:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I had a similar problem, only without the pregnancy issue. If you find out you're not pregnant, sever the ties completely. Don't answer his calls, don't talk to him, and if you do by accident pick up the phone when he calls, be short and end the conversation right away. Being nice is sending him mixed signals, and he may think you'd want to reconcile.
If you're pregnant, though, you'll have to maintain a relationship of some kind with him. Make sure in this situation you are completely honest with him about your feelings.
2006-07-25 09:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by gg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him, then it's over. You can't change your mind because you may be pregnant.
Take a test.....if there was protected sex and everything was done correctly there, I would say it's stress.
You need to make your break-up clear to him. It sounds like he still thinks there is a chance of getting together again.
2006-07-25 09:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like u need to make ur question clearer so.
2006-07-25 09:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by tiffani0611 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋