2006-07-25 09:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People befriend other people to make it easier for them to use for their own greedy needs.....it would be harder for them to use a complete stranger or enemy. I think everyone has had this problem at least once with a person who is a user, but dont worry because the more it happens to you the more you will be able to tell the signs if someone is going to use you and be a biotch...it may cost you your time and emotions, but you actually get something good out of it in the end. It will make you stronger and to make you be able to pinpoint jerks like that so you won't have to go through it any more than you have to. How to make friends that are not like that though is more difficult....it all depends on what they are like and where they stand, timing for them to show true colors, and if you can pinpoint jerks or not. I suggest you start with positive surroundings like a church or something...if you are not religious because I'm not try something like a recreational park....or school.....don't try to find positive true friends at a party of anything. (nothing against partying cause I do it myself) but I usually find nothing but druggies and moochers at parties.
2006-07-25 09:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember dis::
This should probably be taped to your bathroom mirror where one
could read it every day. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.
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>>>>1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die
>>>>for.
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>>>>2. At least 15 people in this world who love you in some way.
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>>>>3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they
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>>>> want to be just like you.
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>>>>4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they
>>>>don't like you.
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>>>>5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
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>>>>6. You mean the world to someone.
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>>>>7. You are special and unique.
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>>>>8. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
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>>>>9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes
>>>>from it.
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>>>>10. When you think the world has turned its back on you take
>>>>another look.
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>>>>11. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about
>>>>the rude remarks.
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BEST OF WISHES!!!
2006-07-25 16:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lilsap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly that is life, everyone at some point in there life gets let down by someone they think is a friend, get yourself a book on assertiveness so that next time some mean person thinks they can do the walking all over you trick you will be ready for them and give as good as you get, good luck.
2006-07-25 16:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to test people, if they look like they are only going to use you, then go the other way. But you have to show people that they cant run over and use you like a rag.
2006-07-25 16:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can be rilly cruel, so u no wat u do...well its a little thing i like to call REVENGE i no its no very nice but i meen, they had the guts to use u rite. just like blak mail them or even better, become friends with one of there friends.
finding friends isn't always that easy, normally friends will just come to you, if they dont, then there must be sumthing rong with you, which there probly isn't. the best of friends are the people who stop everything, and run over to your house because your fish dies. that is wat i call a GREAT friend. so if sum1 uses u, **** 'em, they r just insecure brats that do nothing but spread rumours and attempt to ruin innocent peaopl's social lives.
2006-07-25 16:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by courtney n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to learn to respect yourself. Then your friends will respect you. Be kind and gracious and go gently and slowly with new friends. Be choosy.
All the best to you
2006-07-25 16:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be yourself and stand on your own.
You will notice you can do without Friends but you can also be friendly.
2006-07-27 15:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When something is sweet it attracts the good as well as the bad.
You are useful. Accept it.
2006-07-25 16:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by SUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if u make friend with him/her for a month and he/her has not borrowed money of u for a selvages reason he/her is a true friend
2006-07-25 16:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS YOUR FAULT YOU LET THEM USE YOU!
FIND A FRIEND THAT YOU CAN GET ALONG WITH AND MAKE SURE YOU DON'T LET THEM WALK ALL OVER YOU...MAKE YOUR BOUNDARIES AS SOON AS YOU MAKE A NEW FRIEND!
2006-07-25 16:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by +++++ SPOOK ++++ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋