2006-07-25 09:07:09 · 26 answers · asked by Felicia Fox 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
~Not if your aim in life is to be a whiny, needy, insecure person who likes to be dependent on someone else and afraid to think or do for yourself. Of course, those kind of people usually end up with control freaks, so if that's your thing, go for it.
2006-07-25 09:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
--It is not wrong, but depending on the degree or source of this desire it may be unhealthy. A note to you is this. If you can't take care of you, why would somebody else want to? If you do find somebody who wants to take care of you, what kind of bill is there going to be with it? Worse of all though is when you do find that person and they do all the things you have ever wanted done for you, you are suddenly going to want something else that that person can't do and therefore get rid of them and then you are where you are right now.
2006-07-25 09:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont see anything wrong with taking care of a persons feelings and emotions. But its also wrong to care for someone financially when they are capable of helping themselves.
Tough question I guess. Depends on the circumstances.
2006-07-25 09:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Slick Mac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Wanting something isn't right or wrong in itself. It's what you do based on this desire.
If, based on wanting someone to take care of you, you lay around and whine all day about "why doesn't someone take care of me," that's pathetic.
If you make unreasonable demands on someone because you think they should take care of you, that is wrong.
2006-07-25 09:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I don't think there is anything wrong about that, but is also important to know how to be able to take care of yourself first and from there fullfill your own needs instead of expecting someone else to do it for you. How you are attracts similar people to your life. So if you care for yourself, people who care will come towards you as well. That's the law of attraction. :)
2006-07-25 09:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by *Ollin* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong that I want to take care of you?
2006-07-25 11:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by The Mick "7" 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,its not wrong to want someone to take care of you but you have to be willing to take care of yourself.
2006-07-25 09:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by kahmfs74 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would think not, for me... to being taking care of.
I can't even live In another woman's home without guilt feelings.
But if a two people or married he/she takes the VOW to take care of each other. [ Yes ]
If not married and they love each other then Okay!... they also should take care of each other. [ Yes ]
Nothing wrong it this at all if theres no guilt feelings in it.
2006-07-30 00:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the desire of all of us to have someone that will take care of us. To comfort us when we are sick , to talk to when we are sad, to hold us when we are scared, to love us unconditionally, i think if this is what you are looking for then yes it IS OK. If you are looking for someone to wait on you hand and foot then NO
2006-07-25 09:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by jdrom_1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not nothing wrong with that because i wont someone to take care of me but i will help them to ...anyway u just can't free load off somebody else..
2006-07-25 09:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lil'Bit 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋