but he doesnt show emotions and he wont tell me what he is thinking... it really bothers me because i dont know how he feels.. one of our mutual friends said he just has a tough shell but he thinks he likes me... i dont know what to do
2006-07-25 08:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by lilshortsunshine2002 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we've been friends for a long time and we have already slept together and he drove like 200 miles to see me but when i say i like him he just smiles or sits there he never says anything
2006-07-25 09:12:27 · update #1
Some people are like that. And unfortunately it's not likely to change.
Which isn't to say he doesn't like you. Judging from his actions, he seems to be rather fond of you, certainly. But if you need to hear him say it a lot, you are probably going to be unsatisfied.
The only thing you can do is to tell him how you feel about it. If he is unable or unwilling to be more accomodating in this way, you will have to decide how important it really is. Either let go, or move on. There is nothing wrong with taking either action - many people have unnecessary desires, and many people are just not compatible in relationships.
I hope everything works out, though!
2006-07-26 09:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am assuming you are young, and I can tell you for sure that most young men would EASILY drive 200 miles for free sex. Get over it and find somebody else. And NO SEX - otherwise you will never know what he likes.
2006-07-26 16:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by TPG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most guys dont really come up with their feelings at the first moment. Keep talking to him and let him show how much u love him and cares for him. Then after sometime he will start talking to him. Most guys start talking when girls show love and care.
2006-07-25 16:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by nuwanusa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one option is too maybe set up a study date at home or ask him if he wants to go somewhere just as friends and then you could try asking him who he has a crush on who knows he might just say you!ya neva know till ya ask!
Best of luck!!
2006-07-25 16:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by ashlee o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him except for being too quiet about his feelings ...
and take it slow so his feelings get time to be sorted out.
2006-07-25 16:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress or obsess. wen and if he wants 2 go out with u, he'll ask. just be patient!
2006-07-25 16:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him whats wrong or if he just isn't talking just ask what r u thinking about or something like
2006-07-25 16:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥CAR♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋