How much does sex hurt, both vaginaly and analy. My wife always looks like it hurts alot when we do it either way, but always says it dosent. And I am only of average size. Is this probably true? (serious question, please give serious answer)
2006-07-25 08:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Thanks for the serious answer :)
I hope she is enjoying herself.
2006-07-25 09:10:36 · update #1
I really hope there is nothing wrong with her.
i should also mention, it only looks like it hurts her when we start.
2006-07-25 09:13:08 · update #2
Dancing Snow
I am pretty sensitive, I worry about her alot.
2006-07-25 09:23:30 · update #3
Are you and your wife new to sex? It was painful for me when I first married, but went away after 4 or 5 times.
If this has been going on for a while, then first ask your wife if it is hurting her (just make sure that's the problem). Lubricants might help and also gentle slow movement.
If not, a physical exam might be in order for your wife. It could possibly be a physical abnormality or even pain from an undetected infection.
2006-07-25 09:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think it is totally normal what you wife's face expressions are. I myself know that my hubby sometimes stops and asks if I am in pain while having sex at the beginning of it. I also reply with saying no that's its a weird sensation feeling. But it is not a bad painful feeling. It is indeed a pleasureful feeling. It hard to explain. But i think the face your wife is making is totally normal. However if you are still in doubt be open with her and ask her, if she is sure that she is not experiencing any pain. Let her know that you care and are considered and want to make sure that she is enjoying every minute of it as much as you are. Let her know that if she is experiencing pain that you are willing to do other things to make it less painful for her. For example maybe more lube. There is KY Jelly that can be used and other things out there that you can get. If you would like to talk to me more about this feel free to email me. I hope this helps to reassure you that everything is OK!
2006-07-25 18:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by awesomemommy05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she simply may not be enjoying herself, and she may be to nice to tell to you cause she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Because you know how you men get sometimes when a women tells you your sex is not good. But it may not even be that it's not good you could just not doing what she likes. Try giving her oral sex or touching her so that you get her in mood and it is ok to ask her if she is enjoying herself while you 2 are in the act. Then if that's not working she needs to go to the doctor and find out what's wrong with her.
2006-07-25 16:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on the size of the penis. But no it doesnt hurt and analy yes it does from time to time. She should go get herself checked out... because sex can hurt when there is something wrong.It happens to me from time to time and no I havent went and got checked but I need to so keep that in mind also use vaseline or a lubricant for the rectum.
2006-07-25 16:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God you two need more communication. You mean she's pretending to be enjoying but indeed suffering? I guess few women would behave like that especially in front of hubby. If it really hurts she should let you know immediately so that you two could make any timely changes for better sex . Maybe you're psychologically too sensitive? Good luck.
2006-07-25 16:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by dancingsnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes depending on how the movement is and what your using for example if your not wearing a condom make sure you have some lube on your penis and slowly go in that will be pleasurable rather than tight and painfull also if your thrusting in her deep it can be irritating and cause some minor pain the biggest thing is to either have lube and go slow or dont go in too deep at first also if you play with her a little bit and stop right before her climax then stick your penis in it will make her enjoy it a little more i know its detailed but its true hope it helps
2006-07-25 16:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by drama951 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wife has a pained expression on her face it could mean she isn't enjoying herself not that its hurting her. Sorry but you asked. Find out if your doing the things to her that turn her on. Also I have never tried it but don't you think anal would hurt? Its an exit not an entrance!
2006-07-25 16:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋