I was in a relationship with my ex bf for 2 years to me that was a long time, my fiancé now (who I met after that) and I have been together for 2 years and six months. Well I never completely got over my ex and the sex was and still is the best I have ever had! My ex just suddenly stopped calling and left me alone! I was so hurt; our relationship just disappeared like a mirage! Well, I finally after all this time called him to day to tell him how hurt and betrayed I was and how he vowed to always be truthful to me even if it meant he had to tell me what I didn't want to hear "It's over" but he didn't do it that way. It felt good to find out what the issue was, that he was tired of my drinking (I was using it to medicate my depression about being in the military and away from my dying father)! I boasted and brought up the fact I am a new mom of a 10 month old baby girl, has a new town home, and a 05' Durango and happily engaged!
2006-07-25 08:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I boasted after he told me about how he had moved with a woman to California and then to Vegas during those two years after hurting me! Then I boasted because from what he meant about my drinking he didn't think I was too ambitious so I proved him wrong. Yes, my fiancé knows how I felt about my ex and as for my fiancé he's been divorced twice by cheaters and we both found love in one another and love each other to no end and he knew that this always bothered me and that I needed closure!
My dad later died of small cell lung cancer, and I stopped drinking all together as well as smoking! Also might I add my fiancé was around trying to pick up the pieces of my heart! I also wanted to mention I have a new job making good money and I was delighted to hear he was living with his mom again in a dirty apt in Brooklyn and got kicked out the Air force!
2006-07-25 08:43:41 · update #1
We both met and dated while in the army together until he switched to the Air Force!
2006-07-25 08:44:22 · update #2
I am happy I just wanted to have revenge for the hurt he caused and wanted to know why because I never cheated it made me feel as if something was wrong with me. I love my fiance and I realized just how much even more when my ex was talking to him I felt happy like a glow when I spoke of my fiance because he's all around better than my ex. I guess I realized it was just some odd infatuation I was getting over you know!
2006-07-25 09:01:27 · update #3
good and don;t care about your stupid EX he a jacka** and i think he was trying to get back with you guys are so *******
2006-07-25 08:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Someone once told me that there is a reason that our "ex's" are our "ex's", and that we should understand that it didn't work out because of many reasons, and move on. I know that you say you still have feelings, but can I ask you, when you say you are "happily engaged", are you really? I am not questioning that you love your husband-to-be, but are you possibly searching for an excuse to get out of it? Let's put it like this, WHAT IF your ex said he loved you and wanted you to cancel your engagement and go back to him. Would you? Or do you think that you would say "I can't, I am marrying the man I love" and then you would feel like now YOU were the one who made the decision to end the relationship, and then you could move on. I suggest you get out a piece of paper and write the answers to the questions I just asked, and see what comes out. Feel free to contact me with your conclusions, if you would like, and we could talk some more. Praying for you, and don't worry, things will become clear before long if you ask God to help you figure these things out.
2006-07-25 15:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why we call them ex's, That should have been anough closer for you. Time to move on. If you never had gotten over your ex you should have not gotten involved with someone else. He was nothing but a rebound that you are going to marry.
2006-07-25 15:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a fiance, leave the ex alone
for goodness sake, sex isnt the end of the world, if you go after just sex, you will end up in divorce
2006-07-25 15:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that tore up about him not calling, maybe you're engaged to the wrong guy. Otherwise, get over him and move on with your life.
2006-07-25 15:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband doesn't allow ex's to call me up regularly and I wouldn't want them to. I made a choice. You might need to make one too.
2006-07-25 15:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by MEL T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is just what he is an EX. Get over it and move on.
2006-07-25 15:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neva happened to me but glad to hear ur on the right track now, glad u two could get back in contact.
2006-07-25 15:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this has never happened to me and I wouldn't let it.
If you don't STOP with one or the other you'll end up with neither
2006-07-25 15:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that hapend to me once
2006-07-25 15:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋