Ive been with my sons dad for almost 6 yrs. My son is 2 1/2. I am about 38 weeks along with our second child.Ive tried to stay with him ( my husband) we lived together for like 3 yrs alright then things really started getting bad, he couldnt keep a job, started having raging tantrums, breaking things, throwing me around if i spoke up, selling drugs, hanging out in the "hood". stealing and staying out all night. So I moved out and in with my parents , i work i pay my own way I justcannot live with him. He stays w/somefriendsright now but they are all getting kicked out in a month. I go visit him so our son can see him but he justtakes off on his "runs " allthe time , so last time i justleft .he says im always leaving him and abandoning him. I thought he was starting to change , but now im finding other womens #s i know of who are only known for one thing,( supposed clients of his) he refuses to stop talking to them ,tells me hes making money and im acting up..im soo lost...
2006-07-25 08:33:35 · 8 answers · asked by thisreallymylife? 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
tell him to hit the road-you don't need his crap. If he starts anything, have him arrested under the Family Violence act
2006-07-25 08:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Medusa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one because...I have ALREADY been there and done that! You got away from him! You say that you are working and paying way and caring for your child. This is an excellent place to be, so stay with your family. You can make arrangements for visitation only for the child and he is required by law to pay support. Let your feelings and relationship concerning him come to an end! He has already proven he is not responsible, abuses you and is not doing the right thing by his child! He should be alone to straighten out his life, however, do not take him back. Just be sure to pursue the child support, it is a law and you will need it. Your child's life and yours are precious! You need to meet a new man that will value you and the child! I wish you a lot of luck! Don't allow him back in your life!
2006-07-25 15:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by jillsypill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him. He's not a good guy and he will only cause misery for you and your children. I suggest a divorce. Good luck.
2006-07-25 16:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to forget about him and get as far away from him as possible.
2006-07-25 15:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by BeC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM HIM. This is a "bad news" story and you should already know how it ends.
2006-07-25 15:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. staying with him would only put u and ur kids in an unsafe situation. and hes nailing other girls.
2006-07-25 15:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by wltrlm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prodigal, if unable bear, leave alone.live alone with children
2006-07-25 15:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better leave him
2006-07-25 15:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋