Do you think it actually helps, or could it make things worse?
2006-07-25 08:24:09 · 16 answers · asked by DIVA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well my dear, you have to ask yourself this, would l rather be arguing with my partner or having sex with him?
2006-07-25 10:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Sex should never be used as a means for making up over a fight. Neither should it ever be used as a weapon or for leverage in a relationship between two people who supposedly love each other.
My advice would be to postpone the sex until the real issue behind the fight was resolved. Open communication is the key here. Make-up sex is great, but how much better is it without all the anxiety and pent-up frustrations of issues?
2006-07-25 15:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it make-up sex or are you making love. I my opinion, if it is love then it is okay because you are showing your partner that you can have a disagreement and still love each other and care for each other. Now, if it is just sex I think it is a bad thing because you are doing it for the wrong reasons. You most likely are doing it to try to avoid the disagreement and give in.
2006-07-25 15:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's a great idea, if you and your husband have truly settled the matter that you were fighting over to start with. The only way it could make things worse is if what ever you were fight ing about was not settled, and you continue to bring it up constantly.
2006-07-25 15:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by ladysea8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and I tired that and my gosh it didn't work that way. It seem great idea when we saw on the movies but real life sure is different and too mad to have sex and I try to hurry finished sex so I can be my own... Not good and some people yeah but we don't feel that is good idea.
2006-07-25 15:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up sex is the best sex but when you have sex to make up what happened earlier is just a cover up from the 2 of you getting things worked out make up sex covers up true communications
2006-07-25 15:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea. Sometimes I want to fight just for the sex. Just kidding, I'm wouldn't want to do that. But seriously, I don't think anything is wrong with makeup sex.
2006-07-25 15:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like to think Sex could make things worse
Good Luck to you and God Bless!!
2006-07-25 15:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up to make up then comes the sex that is the best sex cuss you are doing it with passion
2006-07-25 15:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by JESS31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because the problem is still not resolve and maybe could be getting worse
2006-07-25 15:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by symarcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋