my man just got released today from prison. He has not called me yet. Should I stress it? I don't know what to think. His sister said he is probably shopping getting his **** together. I don't know.
2006-07-25 08:22:50 · 21 answers · asked by babywitback 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
before people get the wrong idea. We been together 6 years. He was locked for 5 years. Stood by his side. Before get the wrong impression... Someone but the blame on him. He is not a snitch so he took the time and rode it out.
2006-07-25 08:28:41 · update #1
You shouldnt sweat it. GEE. He just got out, he is free, Im sure you will see him soon. Besides im sure he wants some anyway right?
2006-07-25 08:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Latintweety 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
F--k him! Having a convict for your man is no prize. If he was really concerned about you, he would have contacted you immediately. Don't give him power over you like this. It amazes me how many women put their lives on hold or center their lives around men who are incarcerated. I have been in 2 relationships with men who ended up in prison. I also have family who has done time. Being inconsiderate and a jacka-- has nothing to do with being a felon. Drop him like a hot potato and ask yourself why you think that you should be with a man who doesn't have enough responsibility within him to abide by the law and stay out of jail. Don't stress over him. Let him do the stressing.
2006-07-25 15:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say to him if he calls..." i have thought this through and just want to be friends.."..and if he calls again ...either do not answer or don't return his calls...and if he knows where you live...just park your car around the corner or farther every night for two weeks...I have had to do that ,but not with a criminal...now he should get the hint...If he is a stalker type then file a report with the police department...But just take your time and look around...be careful..i hope that helps...By the way does he have some vandetta against you????
2006-07-25 15:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know what to say, you are going to stress over a criminal doing the wrong thing??? Please, buy a vowel. If you are going to hang out with people like that wrong things are going to happen and you better get used to it because you are choosing it. You really can't do any better than a criminal? Just wait, hec they'll let more out tomorrow is this one doesn't bother to call. Besides are you sure he considers himself your man? He just got out of prison and doesn't hook up with his 'girl' first? Hec if you were really his girl why weren't you the one that picked him up?
2006-07-25 15:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long he has been out. Especially if you were the only one to stand by him you should be the first person that he looked up what does he have to do that is more important than coming to see you except take a shower
2006-07-25 15:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I wouldn't have waited for a man to get released from prison. you don't need something like that in your life. How is he going to get a job?
2006-07-25 15:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rock Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were there for him though out his prison life,
then you should have been the second person to see him when he got out, mom should have been first, maybe you're not the only one, think about it.
2006-07-25 15:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by aaakids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like more of the same, different day to me! He just got out and you aren't the first thing he did?!? Things that make you go HMMM...
2006-07-25 15:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by themom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man. that's not cool. i'd be worried too. but on the bright side. it's just today. it's not like it's been a few days. his sister's probally right.
2006-07-25 15:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by amers07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while. But do you think he is the right option for you. Once bitten twice shy-know?
2006-07-25 15:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋